Above ~ Referring to the Ramen- incident. When Regis's Gaju slandered the food Frankenstein had prepared at home, as-an-insult unfitting to Noble Blood or the palette of of a well breed being. Then upon learning it was in accordance with Raizel-nim's own taste/judgment/will for the menu as food he has enjoyed eating, since awakening; the Gaju does the equivalent of multiple verbal somersaults, overturning his position and supporting his retracted stance as best as he could. It makes me laugh every time.
~ I was once in the company of someone far above my station in life or understanding. They were a friend of my father, and we were dining together, I ordered the burger to the sound of my father's disapproval at a Greek restaurant, he criticized my choice with similar sentiment. Then I expressed I more than satisfied with it among the comparable choices, (not sure what I might have said; but I had eaten here before trying various items and the burger was so gratifyingly mixed with ingredients no other burger had, that I felt like ordering it over the steaks, shrimp, kabobs, fish, salads, etc; substituting cooked vegetables in place of fries and it was aces.) The guest by some reasoning decided to recognize my positive attitude toward the choice and said she would like to try the same. When she announced her decision my dad, suddenly went moot on lecturing me. ~ I'm still not sure if there was a deeper meaning, but to me it was a simple as liking good food, and not letting etiquette or appearances interfere with enjoyment.
~ You meet the most interesting people when you abide by what interests or motivates you. Correction, I believe it would be more true if I had followed and gone where-ever those opportunities led me, rather than feeling the need to stay close to those who were familiar to me. But family is very important to me as an absolute. Hopefully I will discover a way to take them with me on life's journey's. Or maybe learn how to keep them near even when far away. ~ People and family are the most important thing in my life...maybe I waste too much energy an helping strangers? Family First? If only I knew what this was or understood the divisions or decisions people often have. ~ Being an idealist is confusing.