Sometimes you do continue what the others started (and/or try to beat them 'somehow' at that game of spam, by answering, and answering). I see you different than a lot of them see you, maybe because we talk once in a while on skype. But when i see them spamming your thread, and you trying to stop them

i can't stay in place and watch. As you know i dislike too spamming, and when i do post in your thread i try to stay on topic(even if is some sort of spam).
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Now going back to your doubts about shy people when looking each others eyes.
1. They could feel insecure about the discussion(and avoiding eye contact, due to truth answers, and reaction). Watching the eyes of the person in front of you = seeing all facial expressions
2. If you're ugly, they don't wanna have nightmares
3. If you're gorgeous, they found some interesting shapes to watch... or avoiding total eyes contact with you ( just to make you feel/believe, he hadn't watch long time). They feel moreover afraid to upset you, cause they got few chances to have a talk with gorgeous women.
4. They know you got a boyfriend, and they pretend they're not interested on you. They want to be just friends, not even BFF(best friend forever)
5. They don't know you got a boyfriend, and they're afraid of some attraction skid, or they could feel like watching their girlfriend in eyes
Now, if she's a gurl... To be continued.
No, i mean, it feels awkward and uncommon to speak about theses things. I wouldn't say what i think about 2 girls watching each others eyes... may hell be somewhere in between. It's not like something different will happen. A rival rest a rival for eternity. It's not like boys. They somehow feel like brothers, when they got common interests,... meanwhile hell no with gurls.(That's the image i got about 'you', girls)