I don’t fear other people….but I don’t have the confidence to be rejected or criticized by other people…and I get very nervous when I have to do things in front of other people that I don’t feel very comfortable doing them. For example, I won’t just go and approach a guy I like at a party…
that's a bit contradictory lol that been said most girls don't do direct approach. Men are not used to it, last time i got approached by a girl i was so surprised only after she left i realized she was hitting on me. She cames next to me and told me its been a while i didn't see you at the church, how are you? i never go to the church so i was like wut? dunnot what you're talking about then went back to my business. 5mn after i hit myself on the head "fuck i'm stupid".
Well…I think your happiness won’t be complete unless you share that happiness with someone else. And maybe it is more interesting and adventurous…but isn’t it lonely as well?
nope nope nope. Sharing your happiness with someone and relying on someone to be happy are 2 differents thing. Naturally unless one is totally heartless it's impossible to not be affected by family and close friends. But i'll never put the key of my happiness in the hands of the chicks i hang out with, that'd be the death of me
random question: if you go in prison for 10years,do you think your man will wait for you? will you wait if it was him?
I used to think like that as well…in fact, I didn’t believe in marriage nor in a long lasting relationship filled with love. But then I met someone who made me understand that you have to take a risk and take a leap of faith…yes, you might get hurt and you might end up with your heart broken but…if you don’t take the risk you might lose the chance to experience real love and happiness.And...you wait for the right person...I don't...everything just clicks and falls into place.
So you're in love, now i understand your mindset xD To me dating is not a risk, it's bothersome
Well…That is the difference…I apply love when it comes to matters of the heart…not business tactics….and…I don’t need to go and try all the different flavors of candies in the bag to know the one I like….I know what I want and then I just look for it.
love and business share the same principles. Love is an investment and marriage is a contract, you gotta invest right or it's never ending trouble, specially for men. I understand child support but yike why the fck people have to pay spousal support when they divorce