You told a lie that would hurt Adi's feelings and make her question your relationship.
You told this lie to her friend, knowing that he would probably tell her.
I guess all that I can say is you should see how silly this was for you to do. You were playing with Adi's friend's morals and blatantly disregarding Adi's feelings.
Let me put it this way. If I found out that my boyfriend was interested in another girl, I would break up with him. If I found out that my boyfriend LIED about being interested in another girl just to see if the information would get around to me, then I would break up with him. You kind of set yourself up for a lose-lose situation. Your actions were insensitive. Before you had explained this situation (when I only had the story from Adi's point of view), I didn't see you as a bad boyfriend. Now that I've heard your point of view, I kind of do.
So I think you made a mistake, and Ancy's right. You should learn from it and move on.
I confess, I don't want to comment or advice or discuss what has been said above, regarding Adi. She needs to be judge of what is happening or will happen. Otherwise, she will never learn and grow.
Confession no 2., I want to leave office earlier .
I agree with the moving on part, just some things to wrap it up. That friend guaranteed he wouldn't tell her and i was counting on that. Also i wasn't playing with his morals because in my eyes he've done the same thing on some other occasions.
I might be disliked by most yet for some reason knowing I'm not lying makes up for it. On another not I agree with Adi and we should probably not discuss it anymore (if we've all said what needed to be said)
I confess that two out of the last three nights there has been a person mumbling outside of my window in a low, incomprehensible monotone. He/she is around for about a minute and then comes back at least once within range of my hearing. It's bizarre, frightening, and comical all at the same time
I also confess that when he finally leaves I feel lonely
D: I'm looking like a fucking panda. My mom will think I became a junkie!
Ok regarding the other topic... I also don't think that's the place to discuss that situation anymore =/ you're opening your life here and presenting things that should belong only to you two, they are private =/ they won't ever matter as much to us as they do to you, so at this point our opinions shouldn't be considered anymore. That could also be mean, as if you're insisting on a situation that is hurting Adi as well. We could move to other topics.
About the friend thing... Imo, you can't apply exams to learn in wich person you can trust, friendships as well as trust are built^^ You two (you and the friend) started bad (again, imo), but it doesn't mean you can't find a friend in him or in here. But for that to happen, we all should drop this 'Adi x Mon' topic... She's already our friend, we love and care for her, and it at least makes me uncomfortable to talk about that now. When we're not comfortable to talk to someone, we drive ourselves away. Just take it easy, Mon, give this place some time, just be yourself, you'll build friendships here o/
Last edited by Farfalla; April 20, 2012 at 05:20 AM. Reason: LOL FUCK, I just brough back a dead subject that I said that shouldn't be brought back :fail
Me and Nao already discussed the impact of the sight of her in my nights, and I'm over it u.u As a big girl, I swear I didn't run to the light switch and bumped in the wall desperate like hell to turn on the lights 'cause my cat made it seems like there was a dead girl in my bed @.@v
I confess Nana's edit made me LOL so hard...luckily, people are downstairs for lunch, so none heard me..at least I hope so
I confess I enjoy reading other people's drama. Does that make me a bad person?
That makes you a bitch >O!
Ancy, share with me later if I made your family think you're a weirdo xD! (sorry!!! I meant, I kinda grinned at that xD )