I mean, there are really man..ok maybe some, that really fall in love at first sight and its not about lust. I can't really explain it
Nope, I like relationships formed from friends to couple more. Might not be realistic but that is what I like seeing, how two people with no feelings for each other develop over time Interactions is a must, moments when the character discover their feelings, moments like when they are together that is nerve-wrecking and heart pounding I love watching them and love for them to experience those feelings.Quote:
Pretty much..usually two characters falling in love at first sight don't last, because most of the time you will only pay attention to the good points of your crush(or maybe the good points is all you can see) but for characters that gradually fall in love, they will accept both the good points and the bad points as they've already seen them already.Quote:
Its all about accepting
For me, romance in manga/anime, especially harems, seems like total bull to me.
For one, it's really, really rare for there to be such a screwed up male to female ratio in the first place, I'm quite sure there's actually less girls than guys.
Then add the really weak and no-good male lead...ugh.
Why would there be a whole bunch of girls (anything from 3-9) throwing themselves at him?
Also, there is no painless rejection.(From Yankee-kun, I believe) So any reason the main chara has to not choose one girl is just cowardice.
Once he's chosen a girl, most people with common sense would not try and split them up, I doubt anyone would really be that evil. Also, if you got a girlfriend, there's nothing stopping you from having female friends, it's just that you'd spend a LOT less time with them; meaning the other girls then fall to the side.
None of which happens in manga like To love ru~, Iru Machi, etc. The guy just wavers between countless chicks. So bad.
Whoops, rant out.
I agree, which is why I really like the anime Shuffle! It has the harem and the ecchi in it BUT the characters in it is not as bland and the main character is not a coward, he made a choice towards the end and tie up the loose ends with other girls.Quote:
As much as a rant this is, I agree with the wavering between girls.Quote:
I hate guys who does that. That girl is your girlfriend, not this one you're flirting with..
Never fails to get on my nerve, how can such a character be the protagonist defies me.
BakaHaze, did you really expect the harem genre to be realistic? The whole point of harem is fantasy. I mean wouldn't it be great if you were surrounded by the sex you're attracted to? Wouldn't it be even better if they all had a thing for you?
I don't read harem manga to comment on your other points, but you shouldn't expect it to follow the same rules as real-life. A great deal of suspension of disbelief is needed.
Having a meek protagonist also allows the readers to put themselves in the character's shoes since very few people would identify with a guy who is macho and good-looking. This is actually one realistic trait of a (male-centric) harem series. The average Joe is more relatable than a brilliant Joseph.Quote:
But I will not concede the point that the protagonist has to be stronger. I'm quite sure a "normal" character, say, perhaps like Touma, from Index, is actually quite relatable. He's meek, not that strong, not that smart, as you said, but DOES NOT possess the personality defects of typical harem lead, who is not an average Joe as you mentioned, but actually below average. Rather than having a spineless bug as the the lead, the protagonist needs to have some sort of personal characteristics rather than feeliing like a cardboard cut out. It also makes the lead actually likeable, as the lead actually does credible things.
To be fair I don't read harem manga to know that the characters are actually below average. I could see why the mangaka would try to make the protagonist as flat as possible: the harem is simply more important. The characters surrounding the lead dominate tankobon covers and colour pages, have unique character designs with distinguishable personalities and if a series is popular, they are featured in merchandises. All the things you don't like in a harem protagonist is done on purpose. It's so that he won't stand out amidst the other characters.Quote:
heh, but romance in densha otoko sure is heartening...
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I think romance makes an Anime/Manga better, everyone likes a good heartwarmer..or am I being a fangirl?
Yeah, romance in anime make things a lot...sweeter.
But almost every anime have some form of romance
Actually, I think that is a very realistic way of portraying two people falling in love with each other. Friends can become more than friends, and romantic feelings can develop where there were none before.Quote:
I like that as well. ^_^ Like for instance in Kimi ni Todoke, Shota and Sawako’s relationship is like that.Quote:
That was great, Zeltrax! What you said was very interesting. And I must say that I’m not very fond of a character falling in love with another character only focusing on their good points without acknowledging their faults as well. I guess that is why I’m not very fond a certain girl’s love in Bleach.Quote:
For me harems or romance in manga/anime are not bad themselves, it is how they are used in a series that really matters. There are some good romantic manga/anime series out there, just like there are some pretty good manga/anime that follow the harem format and do it well, and therefore the series are awesome (For instance: Ouran High School Host Club).
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Although I prefer Naruto x Hinata or Naruto x Karin, it wouldn't be that good unless they interacted with each other and we saw how compatible they were. Chemistry is more important than getting together just for plot reasons.
What series are those pairings from? I have never heard of them.Quote:
I haven’t read or watched OP, but I thought romance wasn’t really part of the series and that Luffy and Nami were just friends…or is Luffy x Nami a pairing you would like to see?Quote:
You have mentioned one OP pairing, two Naruto pairings, do you have a Bleach pairing?Quote:
QFT once again. I do remember a couple of series where the lead didn’t end up with the girl with whom he had an amazing chemistry but with the other girl that…the story dictated he should end up with, those kind of pairings can feel somewhat forced and can leave the reader/viewer kind of unsatisfied with the result…Quote:
No, romance unfortunately isn't part of One Piece, but it's a pairing I'd like to see and think could happen. I mean, Luffy did make Nami rethink her stance a bit on pirates and even put her life in his hands many times. Definitely great chemistry and good pairing!
Nah, I don't like Bleach nor have I read it. I may when I'm done with Liar Game just to see the hype.
Wow, that's bad. Was there any explanation why?
Also, if I had to have a pairing for Bleach it would Be Hitsugaya with Matsumoto.
From what you have said it seems Luffy is a very special boy to Nami. But what about Luffy? Have there been any sings of Nami being a special girl to Luffy?Quote:
OT: I’m glad you’re reading Liar Game. Awesome manga.Quote:
Because he was supposed to end up with that girl, they were childhood friends and he had liked her since they were kids and she had liked him as well…it is kind of hard to explain, but I must say that the series despite the ending and another "little" detail is a good romance series.Quote:
My Bleach paring is Ichigo x Rukia. Although, I do like Renji’s one-sided (because in my opinion is one-sided) for Rukia.Quote:
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