Life Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Ask the Opposite Gender/The Relationships Thread

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:lmao I'm not sure who to sympathize with more, you or the guy who was threatened to have his balls crushed.
 

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Well, I find it incredible he would actually go for the kiss even when threatened with ball crushing. I don't feel sorry for him as he did go for the kiss and got off easy with a wrap-slap and did not actually have his balls crushed(literally or metaphorically). Perhaps any mention of interaction between you and his balls could actually be misunderstood though lol.
 

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Yeah, I also find it incredible that he still went for the kiss when he had just been told that his balls were on the line lol. I'm sure his whole life must have been flashed before his eyes when he was going for that kiss lol.

On another note, allot of women would actually love that kind of attention. For some, it makes them feel better about themselves, despite their outward reaction. I know quite a few women that even in a relationship, they like to still be hit on with no intention of giving the guy any reception.
 

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Ok, maybe this has just been me but has anyone noticed that women seem to believe they will gain a completely improportionate amount of weight from eating a specific amount of food, specially when on a diet? Kinda like they were going to gain 5 pounds from eating a 4 gram piece of candy?
 

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On another note, allot of women would actually love that kind of attention. For some, it makes them feel better about themselves, despite their outward reaction. I know quite a few women that even in a relationship, they like to still be hit on with no intention of giving the guy any reception.
It's good to know that you can still attract the opposite sex. And I don't think this just goes for women. I think men also enjoy some attention even if they've got girlfriends or wives. It's natural. Because when you know someone is attracted to you it means you still got the appeal, even if you belong to someone else already.

However, you have to draw the line somewhere. It's normal for people to pay attention to those they find attractive, even animals do that. But guys/girls should know when they're already being aggressively desperate.

Example, that guy I mentioned, would keep so close to me at work and stare at me straight up and talk and throw innuendos non-stop. I told him sexual harassment was subjective so it could all depend on me to think he was being harassing- which he really was. I told him to not do those things because I could not concentrate on work anymore, especially that my teammates were around to see the whole thing.

The guy understood it differently. He thought I couldn't concentrate coz I was so attracted to him, and that I was shy about my feelings showing to my teammates. What density!

What made him shut up and lay off though, was not the head-bonking. It was when I told him straight in the face the morning after (when he still tried to bug me at work) that WE WILL ONLY BE FRIENDS AT BEST. YOU CAN ONLY ACHIEVE FRIEND LEVEL, NOTHING MORE. Unexpectedly, that hurt him more than anything. :oh

Ok, maybe this has just been me but has anyone noticed that women seem to believe they will gain a completely improportionate amount of weight from eating a specific amount of food, specially when on a diet? Kinda like they were going to gain 5 pounds from eating a 4 gram piece of candy?
I don't generalize because I know some women who can really eat without gaining anything. I, on the other hand, am the body type that can really gain about 3 lbs with a cup of ice cream. This from constant observation.
 

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Well.... but you shouldn't be able to gain 3 pounds from eating a cup of ice cream though... A cup of ice cream does not have 3 pounds of fat.... Maybe it's the 3 pounds of other stuff that does not help lol (Unless I am missing something regarding this whole weight gaining thing lol).
 

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Where's densha otoko to post here XD. this thread is hilarious. I don't really have any worries about girls until the end of this year. We've got a formal. The question: which is more shameful: not going to your last formal, or going alone? XD

I go to an all boys school, so I have serious levels of social awkwardness around girls.
 

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I'am not the most experienced guy by far, neither do I want to.

I'am often discribed as a young person, but wise like an old man (How does that come?).:blink

I am single at the moment so there isnt anything which bugs me at the moment. The thing which bugs me sometimes, is girls (friends) wanting to talk with me about their broke-up (with their boyfriends). Or friends walking to talk about it to me. That's what I meant with wise like a old man and sometimes it's bothersome to listen to all this crying and stuff. Uuuh:darn Like I am a checker or something :-_-

Or this whole macho stuff (how many girls one slept with, how many hearts one broke) is just irksome and annoying.:-_-

I have many other things to experience and learn about. A relationship is awesome if its serious, but I dont like the whole macho blabbing and stuff.
 

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Recently I noticed that girls around me don't usually just talk to me about past relationships or their problems. Not that I care much about either of them much but isn't that a tad weird(I don't make it a point to show I don't really care)? Why would a girl who is a close friend of mine not do that? Or maybe I am just not the type girls would talk to about such stuff? Well, there are 2 girls who talk about that sort of thing when I am around however I have my own reasons for not counting them (neither of them is intellectually stupid however they sheer amount of stupidity around the stuff they talk about is astounding).
 

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Where's densha otoko to post here XD. this thread is hilarious. I don't really have any worries about girls until the end of this year. We've got a formal. The question: which is more shameful: not going to your last formal, or going alone? XD

I go to an all boys school, so I have serious levels of social awkwardness around girls.
High school kids still stigmatize others for not having dates? Well, if you have a few friends who are also going alone, or if there isn't an overwhelming majority of people that do have dates then it might not be so bad. Otherwise, it would hella suck to be the only solo guy there. The only song you would probably be dancing to is this lol.

On another note, women like guys with confidence so it would be a shame if the fact that you went to a boys school effected the way you act with them.
 

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:lmao I'm not sure who to sympathize with more, you or the guy who was threatened to have his balls crushed.
I just read the post from baboysai.

Duuuhh....that would hurt like hell:darn

How stupid can someone get and ignore a warning that is highly dangerous:-_-
 

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Yeah, I suspect that he may he have just figured she was joking, though. He seemed to have misinterpreted everything. Anyway, if I were him and I still decided to go for the kiss after the warning, I would cover my balls just in case :amuse
 

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Yeah, I suspect that he may he have just figured she was joking, though. He seemed to have misinterpreted everything. Anyway, if I were him and I still decided to go for the kiss after the warning, I would cover my balls just in case :amuse
That would be the best idea. Even though going for a kiss if the girls doenst want it...is not really gentlemen like, I guess :amuse
 

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lol, Being gentleman like is probably the last thing the guy had in mind. The way the guy acted is nothing particularly new and unheard of. Some guys are snobby and they know they are, and they act that way purposely.
 

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lol, Being gentleman like is probably the last thing the guy had in mind. The way the guy acted is nothing particularly new and unheard of. Some guys are snobby and they know they are, and they act that way purposely.
D'accord. That is so true. :o

Unfortunately, some seem to call that cool, which is quite shocking :darn

Wait, am I old aged here? :o :-_-

Even more shocking is that some women thing this snobby behaviour is awesome......which leaves me like that------->:oh

What should I ask the opposite gender now? Huuh....:blink
 

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I go to an all boys school, so I have serious levels of social awkwardness around girls.
All-boys schools still exist (and all-girls) but personally I think it's obsolete. It should be wiped out for society's sake. It was only implemented before because of the weird conservative views of the middle ages or something like that, lol.

Now it totally distorts the upbringings of a perfectly normal child.

Recently I noticed that girls around me don't usually just talk to me about past relationships or their problems. Not that I care much about either of them much but isn't that a tad weird(I don't make it a point to show I don't really care)? Why would a girl who is a close friend of mine not do that? Or maybe I am just not the type girls would talk to about such stuff? Well, there are 2 girls who talk about that sort of thing when I am around however I have my own reasons for not counting them (neither of them is intellectually stupid however they sheer amount of stupidity around the stuff they talk about is astounding).
Not all girls talk about their problems with guys. Note that there is the phenomenon "GIRL FRIENDS" which are waaaaay different to opposite-sex friendships.

Even more shocking is that some women thing this snobby behaviour is awesome......which leaves me like that------->:oh
Because it actually all depends on the situation.

Given my situation that I mentioned, if I didn't have a boyfriend and if I was so attracted to this guy, even if he acted that way I would have thought it was romantic and not douchey. :cookiestare

the problem lay in the fact that I was not attracted to him at all, so any advances, and especially jerky ones, would make him an asshole.
 

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All-boys schools still exist (and all-girls) but personally I think it's obsolete. It should be wiped out for society's sake. It was only implemented before because of the weird conservative views of the middle ages or something like that, lol.

Now it totally distorts the upbringings of a perfectly normal child.



Not all girls talk about their problems with guys. Note that there is the phenomenon "GIRL FRIENDS" which are waaaaay different to opposite-sex friendships.



Because it actually all depends on the situation.

Given my situation that I mentioned, if I didn't have a boyfriend and if I was so attracted to this guy, even if he acted that way I would have thought it was romantic and not douchey. :cookiestare

the problem lay in the fact that I was not attracted to him at all, so any advances, and especially jerky ones, would make him an asshole.

Yeah, it depends on the situation, but what a jerk that was. huhu...I would have laughed so hard if you had actually crushed his balls. :tem

But such situations do happen often. I actually witnessed a guy touching a girls boobs and then get his nose crushed. That was hilarious. And the boy cried, haha :XD
 

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If anyone so happens to find my pride or dignity don't bother sending it back. just put it out of its missery in the most humane way possible.
 

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All-boys schools still exist (and all-girls) but personally I think it's obsolete. It should be wiped out for society's sake. It was only implemented before because of the weird conservative views of the middle ages or something like that, lol.

Now it totally distorts the upbringings of a perfectly normal child.
What a way to call me an abnomal child :XD lol.

I actually don't think it's that bad, for guys, at least, there's far less distractions in class, especially on rainy days when the girls have their shirts soaked through.

Says my friends from a co-ed school. :eyeroll
 

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I knew of guys who were only truly exposed to girls in a conversational level during college. how sad. :/
 
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