Re: The Romance Thread
Tamerlane said:
Just my very humble opinion but from reading thru this thread you sound like you know a lot more about love than you might think. You at least have a clear idea of what you want and that is something that a lot of people do not have.
I guess it's a trial-and-error type of thing with me. I know what I want, yes, but actually romancing girls - I think it's still something I need to work on. I think I'm still missing that certain
oomph with how to go about things XD
Flowers are
cliche - movies are
cliche - dinner is
cliche - almost everything I can think of doing always seems like a
cliche to me.
Although I've had my share of relationships, I've suffered a lot of rejection too. Often, if I really like the girl, I usually come up short of impressing her enough to want to be anything more than a friend.
I'll take a girl out to, say, an amusement park as my favorite type of "local" date, but I always feel like it makes for more of a "friends" atmosphere.
My ideal date would just to go on a two-week journey across the world with a partner, but of course that would take money... *sighs*
I know that there has been a lot said about this already but I will throw my 2 cents in for whatever it is worth.
I agree that there has to be at least some small amount of attraction at first. But I also think that it is very possible to grow to love a person. For example you may be with someone you are not that attracted to physically at first but the more you are with them and the more you grow to love them they may look more physically attractive to you as time passes.
Agreed - and now that I think about it, that reminds me of something - one of my ex-girlfriends were not that physically beautiful but I always thought she was so beautiful because she just radiated personality - she had such a way with smiling, her eyes were always so interested or expressive - it was almost as though I was getting drunk on her sometimes. Our first date, I was already hooked on her.
So sometimes it's just about a strong or interesting personality.