The Last Person to Post Wins - Xatu

[Dried Ambrosia]

Elusia's quick-confessions

Am I the only one here who missed all of Elusia's quick confessions? #feels so left out

 

[GrySun]

Things got busy on your end Ancy?

 

[Reebi]

Ahhhrrrggggg!!! Fucking introverts D:

Asked a girl for her phone number, in a super polite way like 1 month ago, the said no and didn't asked the reason behind. Today i see her, she looks me, i wave my hand greeting her, she looked down and turned around and returned her way.

Another reason sums up to my hate list.

I don’t think that’s an introvert but someone you creeped out

 

[Organizized]

I went get a cheap (albeit cold) pizza from a nearby pizza buffet just before closing time. I got 3. With a price of quarter on pizza.

Would you say they’ve... earned your crust?

Maybe even a... pizza your heart?

Either way, sounds like you really saved some dough.

 

[Xadyu]

Am I the only one here who missed all of Elusia's quick confessions? #feels so left out

I have no clue what they are talking about either.

 

[Organizized]

Elusia’s mentioned a couple of times that whenever she’s interested in/likes someone, she just straight up tells them immediately. That’s what that means.

 

[Xadyu]

Elusia’s mentioned a couple of times that whenever she’s interested in/likes someone, she just straight up tells them immediately. That’s what that means.

How come she hasn't said she likes me then?

I've been back for a while now.

 

[Reebi]

I’m going to help you single men out there.

Things that creep women out:

Over noticing, especially when it comes to schedules. It makes us think you are a stalker.

Over messaging. It seems like you have no life and again, like a stalker. I guess the theme is giving us space.

Over Assertive. Some men are just like that but it can make women feel uncomfortable because they lose a sense of control.

Over Asking. No one wants to reveal too much about themselves. Again, sense of control and stalkerish.

Elusia’s mentioned a couple of times that whenever she’s interested in/likes someone, she just straight up tells them immediately. That’s what that means.

That’s good. Some women don’t because they don’t want to hurt feelings.

 

[Xadyu]

I’m going to help you single men out there.

Things that creep women out:

Over noticing, especially when it comes to schedules. It makes us think you are a stalker.

Over messaging. It seems like you have no life and again, like a stalker. I guess the theme is giving us space.

Over Assertive. Some men are just like that but it can make women feel uncomfortable because they lose a sense of control.

Over Asking. No one wants to reveal too much about themselves. Again, sense of control and stalkerish.


That’s good. Some women don’t because they don’t want to hurt feelings.

You forgot to mention being a good friend and actually caring, because back when I was single, that didn't help at all.

 

[z.5]

That’s good. Some women don’t because they don’t want to hurt feelings.

Nothing hurts a man's feelings like saying that you like them.

 

[Xadyu]

True story. Because my wife told me she only noticed me and found me somewhat interesting because I kept ignoring her and was an asshole to people that night.

Being an asshole is actually a good strategy too, we tested it out at times, for fun. And I'd always succeed.

 

[Organizized]

Tfw you finish a great book.

 

[z.5]

Being an asshole is actually a good strategy too, we tested it out at times, for fun. And I'd always succeed.

Aye, women do love bastards

--- Double Post Merged, Jan 29, 2018, Original Post Date: Jan 29, 2018 ---

Tfw you finish a great book.

Which?

 

[Xadyu]

tfw you realize that you don't want to watch next week's episode of This is Us because you're going to cry like a fucking baby


which I do almost every episode.. but next week is THE episode...
i cried seeing the promo man wtf

 

[gnut]

Tfw tommie becomes a dad and turns into a real beeeeeyatch.

 

[GrySun]

So emotional

 

[Organizized]

Tbf I’ve heard that referred to as “the cry show”. No one I know who’s watched it hasn’t cried. I’ve never watched it though so idk.

Which?

Hard-Boiled Wonderland And The End of the World by Haruki Murakami. I had no expectations (aside from, you know, it being Murakami) - I got one of the best books I’ve read in a while.

 

[z.5]

Hard-Boiled Wonderland And The End of the World by Haruki Murakami. I had no expectations (aside from, you know, it being Murakami) - I got one of the best books I’ve read in a while.

My wife likes him, but I don't think I've ever read anything he has written.

 

[Organizized]

My wife likes him, but I don't think I've ever read anything he has written.

I've read this one and Norwegian Wood. Brother-in-law is a big fan, so I told him I really liked this one. He said I literally read the most "normal and every-day" book of his first, and now arguably the weirdest, most far-out one. I don't mind surreal/weird books though, which might be why I liked this one more than Norwegian Wood (which was still a good coming-of-age story), and which is why I'll likely check out his other stuff... when I feel I have time for it. They're pretty big pieces, in general. But supposedly 1Q84, The Wind-Up Bird Chonicle and Kafka on the Shore are must-reads, so I'll get to them... some day.

 

[Lambu]

Try flipping your phone horizontally/vertically to see if it happens in both screen sizes. Other than that not sure how to fix that. Maybe try another phone browser app or maybe even another forum theme for your phone(though the theme shouldn‘t matter with emotes but you can try).

Yep, when I flip the phone horizontally the problem is gone. It seems the thing only happens when I read in mobile version.

So I guess the only thing I can do is deal with it.

I’m going to help you single men out there.

Things that creep women out:

Over noticing, especially when it comes to schedules. It makes us think you are a stalker.

Over messaging. It seems like you have no life and again, like a stalker. I guess the theme is giving us space.

Over Assertive. Some men are just like that but it can make women feel uncomfortable because they lose a sense of control.

Over Asking. No one wants to reveal too much about themselves. Again, sense of control and stalkerish.

Yeah, my sister and friends gave me all those lessons a long time ago, though its quite difficult to find the balance for us guys.

You see, girls dont like to push things, they almost always are the ones that should make the step (unless its clear she likes the guy but she's too shy to do it) or else you may creep them out. Most times they are fond of you, just dont see you like "that" so they are afraid of destroying the friendship by making the step.

A good friend of mine always told me the same: "Friendzone us!" but at the same time girls like to get attention so its good to make sure you care for how they are doing, treat them like any other friend but at the same time demonstrate her she's unique and special. There goes the teasing or the affection, its like a dance with invisible lines and we guys often fail to see them.

Shobu, you might have to apologize to her for being so straightforward and tell her you cherish your relationship as it is, remind her that, thats my advice.