Archived Hangout Thread v. 16

[-Ren Boy-]

Maybe they feel more confident when they speak with there fist instead of words. Haven't they heard the word opinion...epic failures lool.

 

[eni]

They's a ridiculous reason to start a fight over a rap? Can't you argue (talk) that shit out? That's the type of naive high school stuff I'm talking about.

Talking about naiv, my ex broke his own hand while punching the door out of jealousy after seeing a male online friend of mine changing his t-shirt in front of the webcam

 

[Arrogance]

Talking about naiv, my ex broke his own hand while punching the door out of jealousy after seeing a male online friend of mine changing his t-shirt in front of the webcam

Hey, I'd have the same reaction too if I was him and walked into a room and saw a guy changing his shirt on your computer screen

 

[eni]

Hey, I'd have the same reaction too if I was him and walked into a room and saw a guy changing his shirt on your computer screen

That's so typically 'men' ... reaction first, then we may talk whether the reaction was actually backed by any reason

Funny thing is, going into a strip club with his friends is okay and gets justified with 'it's an anonymous woman'.

Yeah sure, totally more okay than having a friend changing his shirt in his room at noon during a hot mid summer day. It would have been totally fine if it weren't displayed on the webcam but had happened in the very room, that's the joke about it

 

[bean]

That's so typically 'men' ... reaction first, then we may talk whether the reaction was actually backed by any reason

Funny thing is, going into a strip club with his friends is okay and gets justified with 'it's an anonymous woman'.

Yeah sure, totally more okay than having a friend changing his shirt in his room at noon during a hot mid summer day. It would have been totally fine if it weren't displayed on the webcam but had happened in the very room, that's the joke about it

I see it as two different things. Going to a strip club, if he's into that, isn't as bad. Consider this, if he sees you having a video chat with some guy on the internet, that's a bit more personal and intimate. Sounds kinda weird, but it's one on one where as a strip club is an environment. I don't necessarily agree with what the ex did, but I would have been unsettled as well. A video chat carries some certain stigma with it, like almost as if you're cheating on him with someone else.

just curious, but what would you have done (honestly) if you walked in on him having a video chat with some chick who was taking off her shirt, showing her bra? What about without a bra?

 

[blai]

LOOL ADAM said some silly status on facebook
"if you want beef, I can't I am a vegetarian" look what we have influenced lool

lol it's from a song and goes "Tell your boyfriend that if he got beef, that I'm a vegetarian and I ain't f*cking scared of him"

 

[eni]

just curious, but what would you have done (honestly) if you walked in on him having a video chat with some chick who was taking off her shirt, showing her bra? What about without a bra?

Can you compare a girl without bra to a topless guy? It's quite normal for me to see guys with naked torsos while for men it's certainly more of a highlight when a girl is taking off everything around the top. Though, it's a frequent view at the public baths in summer as well but I guess that's not a situation which could be misinterpreted? *think*

As for a girl taking off her shirt while covering the breast - why should I be upset about it without knowing the situation? I'm changing as well besides friends as long as I keep the bra on (or turn my back to them when I don't wear one, I hate wearing those) and don't mind when others do it. Among friends, that's quite... normal? I don't really know how else to change at our beach otherwise, there's simply no place to hide oO;

I fail seeing the difference here between a webchat and being physically in the same room, which he never minded because the situation ('changing the shirt') is clear to everyone through the general uninterested behavior of all persons around. If it's a erotic situation, you see the participants acting like it. And I wasn't even looking at my monitor at that time.

 

[Phoenix946]

Agreed eni, that's overreacting like hell. Broke his hand on the door? I mean, what the shit. I wouldn't even do that if I actually caught my girlfriend cheating I'm not the biggest bulk of testosteron you'd come across but seriously, that sounds far from normal.

Jealousy is a tricky thing anyway. Guys may punch through a door, but girls begin friggin stealth-operations and whatnot if they get jealous or insecure. It's just about control and having the common sense to communicate about it.

 

[eni]

He's extreme jealous, yeah. To the point that he would fetch me from a party for the whole reason to make sure that I didn't end up with another guy and constantly trying to get all my male friends out of my life -.-

I have so many threats as sms on my handy on the line of "fine, stay an hour longer because of your new lover and I jump in front of a train!" that I could summarize them into a book <.<

 

[◆ T.D.A ◆]

Does handy mean mobile phone? And that sounds a bit extreme.

 

[Phoenix946]

Wow, I was gonna say see it as a sign of caring, but... you just have a stalker on your hands. Isn't that kind of scary actually? Man I wouldn't be able to live normally with a person like that. A little bit of jealousy could be cute and makes for nice joke-material, but if it gets too much... ugh.

A good friend of mine is the jealous type, but since we've known each other for multiple years now, I know exactly how to deal with it. That and she isn't my girlfriend

 

[eni]

'Handy' is the common German term for mobile phone, jupp.

And yeah, there's a point where jealously gets ridicolous and the person in question actually only reaches the opposite effect with his behavior .__.

 

[blai]

The feeling "Jealous" is okay to a certain extent. Like, yeah ofc you worry if your bf/gf goes out with someone you don't know. I would get jealous then - if it's someone complete random that she haven't told me about but if it's someone I know, like I know this is a guy friend of hers that she've known for a while then yeah sure, do what you want lol but if it goes to an extent, and even to the (sorry) ridiculous amount that your ex built up eni it makes me partly happy that you two broke up because It wasn't healthy for neither one of you.
Though I know that, for example, a male friend of mine is on the line between good jealous and silly jealous but he knows it himself and he doesn't want to be jealous but he can't help himself. Partly because he can't trust her to 100% since she's been flirting with guys at the early stage of their relationship but the other part he can't understand. He just is jealous, he can't help himself for that...

Oh and I just looked out of the window and one of the painters that's painting our house is super-hot. Like one year older than me or something, blonde nice curves and everything. And she's painting just outside my window now lol...
"Heey... How u doin'?"

 

[Epul]

@blai- be nice now blai.... ^^

I'm still in cloud nine after watching Man Utd against Malaysia. I hope they come here every year! XD

 

[◆ T.D.A ◆]

I think Man Utd will come back next year to Asia as well for pre-season. We're off to Korea it seems.

Oh yeah the run by Giggs against Malaysia was epic.

 

[Epul]

Wow that's great news!

One interesting thing though, when I went to the stadium, most of the locals here (including me) are wearing Man Utd jersey or any kind of shirt hat says Manchester United on it while most of the foreigners I've meet are wearing Malaysia National Team jersey complete with headbands and all and they even join in with our national team chant! Brilliant stuff! XD

 

[bean]

Can you compare a girl without bra to a topless guy? It's quite normal for me to see guys with naked torsos while for men it's certainly more of a highlight when a girl is taking off everything around the top. Though, it's a frequent view at the public baths in summer as well but I guess that's not a situation which could be misinterpreted? *think*

As for a girl taking off her shirt while covering the breast - why should I be upset about it without knowing the situation? I'm changing as well besides friends as long as I keep the bra on (or turn my back to them when I don't wear one, I hate wearing those) and don't mind when others do it. Among friends, that's quite... normal? I don't really know how else to change at our beach otherwise, there's simply no place to hide oO;

I fail seeing the difference here between a webchat and being physically in the same room, which he never minded because the situation ('changing the shirt') is clear to everyone through the general uninterested behavior of all persons around. If it's a erotic situation, you see the participants acting like it. And I wasn't even looking at my monitor at that time.

well it's more about the way it comes off then what is actually happening. A guy taking his shirt off in the same room with you can be crystal clear if he's just taking the shirt off and you're at your computer or doing something else. Unless you're pretty much right in front of him when he's taking the shirt off or you're taking the shirt off, it can look rather innocent (though, call me a prude, who changes alone with another person that isn't your significant other?). But when he walks in and sees you interested and concentrated on a video chat on your computer screen (regardless if you were looking at the screen or not) and sees a guy undressing, clearly you can see why he would get jealous, no? I don't agree with him blowing up, but don't you think it's a bit naive, and inconsiderate, to go, "oh, he should have asked what was going on before blowing his lid...there was nothing going on, it was innocent."

Either way, the way you describe makes him sound like an insecure jerk. Also, handy means something completely different...like if you're addressing germans, they might get it, but for everyone else...not so much.

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name the dish. It's chinese.

 

[◆ T.D.A ◆]

Is that rice? fried rice with baked pork chops? Never had it.

 

[bean]

there is rice, but it's just steamed. The meat is beef.

 

[-Ren Boy-]

Lol I have never seen that in my life but it is tempting. Is there a specific name for it, because it looks nice.

Pie + Mash with liqour is the best. Respect to Nathans at Upton Park, brilliant shop