Because i just don't seem to understand the best way to deal with this one girl.
Because i just don't seem to understand the best way to deal with this one girl.
I don't get it.
she bad huhBecause i just don't seem to understand the best way to deal with this one girl.

BoozeBecause i just don't seem to understand the best way to deal with this one girl.
I don't know, it isn't that bad anymore. Just last summer the first completly independent distillery in 100 years was founded, and small local breweries are poppig up like mushrooms at rain. I might actually be too late, because there already is a micro-brewery in town, which rapidly gaining more and more name.in finland?
kinda gotta compete in a very established industry
SEE....TOLD YA SOI don't know, it isn't that bad anymore. Just last summer the first completly independent distillery in 100 years was founded, and small local breweries are poppig up like mushrooms at rain. I might actually be too late, because there already is a micro-brewery in town, which rapidly gaining more and more name.

Care to share Jorpedro?
Coffeine drinks are so 2010.SEE....TOLD YA SO
come up with something new...some new caffeine drink...lol


It's one of those things that is easier said than done. But yeah ...Stop getting roped along jorped, give it up
Even if it isn't intentional, it's not like she's going out her way to talk to you...soIt's one of those things that is easier said than done. But yeah ...
so many womenz bro....so much timeWell, it's a girl i have been interested for quite some months. During that time, i tried to see if we would get closer, manly by having some online conversations and since she studies on another city, and only comes home some weekends i would try to hangout with her at some of those times. But since we have some friends in common, whenever i tried to find something for us to together, it never ended to be just the 2 of us.
Well after an while, where i felt like it was mostly me initiating and me trying to make something happen, i just decided to fall back, specially because even if i didn't told her word to word that i definitely have some feelings for her, it's something that was pretty damm obvious after all these months.
Now 1 month later she messaged me asking saying hello and all and asking how my new semester was going. We had a small conversation and now she just didn't reply my last message xD

thank goodness i'll be dead by thenYeah, doesn't sound that appetizing, but that is the future they say.

Even if it isn't intentional, it's not like she's going out her way to talk to you...so

ask yourself....is she putting in this much effort....or worrying as you?Well she did start the conversation today. But the timing was bad for several reasons, since it seems like we won't be able to hang out for at least a couple of weeks, while that wouldn't be the case for the past few weeks. Had she messaged me some days earlier and during this weekend we could have planned something.
Then during this past week i also went out with common friends of ours, and whenever i go out with them, they always try to see if i can get some girl. But specially some days ago, i was on an Erasmus's party and initiated conversation with a lot of foreign chicks, and there's chance one of them might have talked to her about it.
And maybe she started to feel that i might not be into her anymore lol.
Anyway, there's also the thing about one of our common friends (knows her for away longer than he knows me) asking me how things were going with that girl, and i ended answering nothing was going on.
It's not everyday, i start to get these feelings for someone, but as you deduced those feelings are not reciprocal at all. Joining all this, i think she has some feelings for her ex, or at least she clearly had some months ago xD
This is not a matter of luck, unfortunatelyEven so, good luck Jorped!![]()

Well you are right. I just fail to understand why she would message me, but w/e.Overthinking OP!
Just seems like you have to take what comes. If she wants to hang out with you it'll probably be more obvious. Otherwise it isn't something worth agonizing over.