Son Hak Akatsuki no Yona | - | Kojirou Saeki Prince of Tennis |
Son Hak Akatsuki no Yona | - | Kojirou Saeki Prince of Tennis |
Isn't that the point of campaigns? c.cDamn, Lala you are going all out!
For the record, he did say that Hak is a better husbando xDFarf vs Hardy?
Farfs won some massive points with that campaign but I’ll await the other side’s counter before voting. This will be interesting.
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The big question I’d want to ask if this protective undying love extends to anyone but Yona. It’s simple psychology that people you grew up with are the most dear to you. For me, what I read, this feels like Hak and Yona share some kind “security dependency” which is totally okay since Hak indeed looks like a supportive and nice leading dude. He protects his tribe, but how much of that stems from the fact that he was raised to be a guardian? It’s an implemented honor, not something that’s inherent in his nature.This is one of my fav parts so far^^ What I get from it is that the root of his feelings is some profound admiration of the one he loves. The things he sees in his SO and the person's essence are crystal clear, and due to that his feelings are solid. It remains like that throughout all the series, Hak never seems to have any doubts about what the princess means to him.
Those are great feats in a husbando, someone whose feelings are immutable, who knows you deeply in spite of what you display, who gets dazed by things you didn't even know you had in you, and would love for others to aknowledge your value as well. You think you're just a shadow in his greatness, but in his eyes you're above everything, and that makes you wanna go further.
Seems all good, but don't want to live in a world with brothersister complexes. I'm sure one of the other participants here would though, apologies.So, as I said before, Hak is the princess bodyguard. During the series, it's not uncommon for him to get harmed while protecting her. He's often seen as serious, harsh and mocking others, which makes him more interesting and not dull, but you also get a lot of examples of his selfless and concerned nature. I personally believe that before being a great partner one should be a great human being overall, and Hak not only act like that with the princess, but is often sheltering people in battles and providing for the group, he's a role model in his tribe (and also its Chief), no wonder he's so estimated there. If only more people had kind natures... maybe we'd be living different times.
Going by his wikia page, he has this quote here:So yeah, Hak abnegated a lot of things for Yona - titles, his homeland, safety and stability - but he claims he's home and free due to being by her side - not even with her, since they're not together. The way be gets torn between fearing about something bad happening to her and yearning for her to fight and strive and grow is also beautiful...
/Takes out poetry bookIn a world where everything is so fickle... and relationships are so ephemeral, to the point that love doesn't even look like a bless or something lucky anymore, but utopia... I wanna believe people can still have partners like that^^ At least I see a lot of it in mine, and value it, which also makes me feel more certain of what I cherish deeply about my own SO, and what I like to see mirrored in characters I consider to be epic husbandos, like Hak <3
Yeah, won't lie. Had I known that before, I'd have voted for Jin. Same reasons why I'm going with Maes this round. In the Waifu Wars, some people were very strict about not having a minor as a sexual partner, which wives are. I don't see why minor girls are lolis but minor boys are "intended to be something else so it's fine". Equal treatments, right? There are some things about husbandos I'm not comfortable with and this is one of them, one of the reasons why I didn't nominate Armin as well (even tho he's 19+ currently, but hasn't appeared yet).Saeki Kojirou is a third year (15, but keep in mind that the author originally created them in mind to be 18-19)
That's just twisted^^"He does not have, what I'd call, one or two steady childhood friends he’s dependently close on. That simply doesn’t feel realistic either, and it’s in fact a bit unhealthy to devote yourself to it.
His commitment protection-wise does extend to others, as I said in my post. Later I can pick up some pages about him declaring he's be looking over their current friends as well, and about his feelings and stance over the Wind Tribe. In spite of where his attitude towards his tribe comes from (gratitude for being raised there, and as a leader, or just nature, which seems to be the case to me, since he replicates this to others he met later), it's a fact his affectionated behaviour is still there, and there's nothing bad about the roots for that.The big question I’d want to ask if this protective undying love extends to anyone but Yona. It’s simple psychology that people you grew up with are the most dear to you. For me, what I read, this feels like Hak and Yona share some kind “security dependency” which is totally okay since Hak indeed looks like a supportive and nice leading dude. He protects his tribe, but how much of that stems from the fact that he was raised to be a guardian? It’s an implemented honor, not something that’s inherent in his nature.
Also, going by the history he has with Yona, it is the most likely that he has developed brotherly affections. That's simply how the brain works to be fair, and I'm going to be honest and say that's not a good basis for a relationship. If Hak developed affections for anyone else, he would not act the way he does now. Princess is always his number 1, which is honorable, but man I don't want to marry a dude with a shrine dedicated to some red shrimp.
It doesn't matter if he said that once, if he demonstrates many times otherwise, even remarking he promised to keep the composure. How many times don't we exaggerate our sayings? Let actions speak for themselves (again, later when I'm not at work, I can pick up some pages to portrait that as well).Going by his wikia page, he has this quote here:
“When I’m with the princesss, I lose my mind.”
Now I assume this probably means that he has so much affections for her that he can’t control, but man, if my hubby said that to me, despite how flattering and romanticized it’s made out to be here, I would call the friggin cops and change all the locks. It’s cute when someone is bothered by you. It’s not cute when they want to give their entire life, devote it to you, obsess over you. Which is all reasonable, since this is a reverse harem and completely unrealistic towards that. And he is a guardian…so yeah. It's clashing.
And the whole thing makes him sound like a 'nice' guy. "HEY GIRL JUST SNIFFING UR HAIR MAKES ME HAPPY pls hold my hand :'c"
And yeah xD I guess we're going for different ideals. Hence why I said I'd rather leave it open for what people prefer, identify with, and will support based on knowledge.Life is sad. Life is sand. Relationships wash away. Just like a sandcastle.
I kind of dislike these kind of discussions but I feel it's entirely different in this case. While shotas are definitely very much a thing right now, just like lolis, it does not have the same kind of standard behind it. Yeah, double standards exist, and I understand everyone asks for equal treatment in this regard, but it's not the same at all. I'm not going further on this cause that will become a sore discussion for both of us, but I respect your opinion on this.Yeah, won't lie. Had I known that before, I'd have voted for Jin. Same reasons why I'm going with Maes this round. In the Waifu Wars, some people were very strict about not having a minor as a sexual partner, which wives are. I don't see why minor girls are lolis but minor boys are "intended to be something else so it's fine". Equal treatments, right? There are some things about husbandos I'm not comfortable with and this is one of them, one of the reasons why I didn't nominate Armin as well (even tho he's 19+ currently, but hasn't appeared yet).
Hm okay, I guess it's not an obsessive dependency. I wouldn't know cause I have not read the manga and my campaigning style is by dragging the opponent (nothing personal), but it doesn't change that their relationship stems from a sibling one. Frankly, they seem to hit all those flags. It's kind of a physiological impairment to fall for someone you consider a brother or sister, even though it does happen, but those are indicators for mental illness. (source that one psychiatry class i have to take, having childhood friend dudes i consider as a brother and would never think of dating)That's just twisted^^"
First: childhood friends you keep for life and value a lot are rare, but real, and a treasure for the ones that have them. I know two people I have as ones of the most important in life are 2 old friends. We grew, we changed, we got apart, and I'd still trust in then as if we were 14 again, and go to their aid.
Second: Hak isn't dependently close to them. He got apart from Soo Won, for obvious reasons. He'd get apart from Yona as well, as he was planning to on Chapter 8, but she asked him to stay with her. And well, he's in love, he believes he can do more for her, and that got him to stay, not some obsessive dependency.
Whenever in doubt of something, you need facts to speak for you.
I agree that personality is shaped by the environment and that genetic factors dont play a role at all. He's a cool dude. But so is Saeki.His commitment protection-wise does extend to others, as I said in my post. Later I can pick up some pages about him declaring he's be looking over their current friends as well, and about his feelings and stance over the Wind Tribe. In spite of where his attitude towards his tribe comes from (gratitude for being raised there, and as a leader, or just nature, which seems to be the case to me, since he replicates this to others he met later), it's a fact his affectionated behaviour is still there, and there's nothing bad about the roots for that.
And also, I disagree. Of course I wanna be #1 for my husband. I don't wanna be the center of his life, but if I got to be the sole one he decided to spend the rest of his days with, romantically and sexually-wise, it is only natural that that happened 'cause I'm special to him.
Oh boy am I glad my husband says creepy things to me but never does them. Let actions speak, yes, but there's still the implying that he's a kettle ready to burst at anytime. Simply cause he's not doing it, doesn't justify the entire thought process behind it.It doesn't matter if he said that once, if he demonstrates many times otherwise, even remarking he promised to keep the composure. How many times don't we exaggerate our sayings? Let actions speak for themselves (again, later when I'm not at work, I can pick up some pages to portrait that as well).
Likewise you don't have any advantage over Sae either, unless you bring his actually supported incesty crush on Yona.And yeah xD I guess we're going for different ideals. Hence why I said I'd rather leave it open for what people prefer, identify with, and will support based on knowledge.
Just to end my reply: dealing with pressure, being respected, being trusted, bein charming, being skilled, being kind, those are all features Hak share, so they aren't advantages over him. Also, since you mentioned Saeki is just a regular human or something, having zoomie eyes doesn't fit that xD So both have unrealistic things on their account, simply 'cause manga series are fantasy territory.
Aww...No it's just that I know a lot of stuff about my favorite team Rokkaku and that I entered the thing as a joke...To be fair, Saeki is only remembered as "that handsome hot dude" (If he gets remembered at all, because Rokkaku is the 2nd least popular school from the 9) but not a lot of people seem to know about his personality cause "hot", so I just wanted to change that. I'm really pulling at straws here :'DYou're a formidable apponent, with a solid, appealing and coherent campaign, a good nominee, and PoT has an army of fans that are actively participating in this event, so don't be so sure you're going down now xD Heck, I'm spending a lot of time and energy trying to think how to pull out a victory here, even though I honestly believe Hak is more fit than Saeki for this...
They better.This is gonna be a bible fight, it seems ç.ç Hope people enjoy it somehow lmao
That's not what a husbando is, or at least not how it should be. According to the wiki: it's a fictional character from non-live-action visual media (typically an anime, manga or video game) to whom one is attracted and, in some cases, whom one considers a significant other. You're not measuring how likely it would be for you to be the SO, you're evaluating what appeals to you in a love interest. If you follow that path then a lot of nominations are just bad, since those characters alrdy have their SO (Holo and Lawrence, Mikasa and Eren, Maes and Gracia, Guts and Casca, Ban and Ellen, Erwin and Mary, and so on). It's actually easier to say it's doubtful to know if Saeki would be a good husbando 'cause you have no references for him in a romantic field, but then again, it's about what appeals to you the most, so we can go there as well. It does help me that, unlike Saeki, Hak is a love interest so we do have enough ground to base our claims that he's something attractive as a husbando - to whoever likes how he behaves with Yona.And you disagree with what? You want to be the sole one to spend the rest of his days with, but if it comes to it, he will probably abandon you for Yona. Cause she is his number 1. Now of course, if we look at it from the perspective of Yona alone, he's a good husbando in those regards, but literally no one else tops her, simply because the plot asks for it. I concur: 1. Good husbando (albeit incesty) for Yona 2. Not so good husbando for everyone else, if we take him in the universe as he is right now.
Of course, I can't really debate that because ultimately tennis is not as heavy focused on drama and romance as AnY. I can't really predict how Saeki would fare if he were placed inside that kind of universe. I however do believe he would act the same in regards to romance? I can only derive from the otome games, which were pretty neat, but Saeki was not written as a love interest like Hak was.
Uh? XD People burst, people say things without thinking, people feel lost and compelled and confused and overwhelmed at times, all of us, that doesn't make us all sick or dangerous or abnormal o.o That's another stretch^^" And yeah, people have thoughts and feelings that they'd be ashamed of others finding out but that doesn't mean those aren't things that others don't feel as well. We're animals, we still have instincts, urges, and having awareness and control over them is what set us apart from many things.Oh boy am I glad my husband says creepy things to me but never does them. Let actions speak, yes, but there's still the implying that he's a kettle ready to burst at anytime. Simply cause he's not doing it, doesn't justify the entire thought process behind it.
I could rob you right now, but I won't do it, even though I REALLY HAVE THE IMPULSE TO ROB you. It's a bit different in this case where it's more, I could do unspeakable things cause I love her so much, but I love her so much I won't. I can't speak for everyone, but this is definitely the feelings I get from this dude.
Dw, Hak isn't that well known nor popular. Many heard of AnY but never checked or dropped it after some time cause Yona is such a brain cancer '_'Aww...No it's just that I know a lot of stuff about my favorite team Rokkaku and that I entered the thing as a joke...To be fair, Saeki is only remembered as "that handsome hot dude" (If he gets remembered at all, because Rokkaku is the 2nd least popular school from the 9) but not a lot of people seem to know about his personality cause "hot", so I just wanted to change that. I'm really pulling at straws here :'D
But you had the most votes previous round, and even though my opponent didnt campaign at all, he got 14 of them. Heck, even in the first round I won with three votes while the opponent didn't campaign. + Everyone here knows you already :'C while I am a scrub forced in here by Kazzie and Hardy.
Can't win against the popular guys...But I do believe Saeki is a wonderful guy with many husbando qualities, that are not emphasized upon.
And I'm not into tsunderes :v
Also "I lose control of my hips, niichan ><".Also, "lose control" is so vague and subjective and could go so many ways... "I lose control of my thoughts and can't think straight", "I lose control and feel like I could just kiss her already", "I lose control and also my sleep", etc.
LOL sorry ^^' If I go hard I go hard.Ok, I don't get where your brother-sister complex argument is coming from xD Care to explain it again? I prolly brainfarted and was unable to comprehend it. So far it looks like you're stretching a context to fit your scenario, like when people say "oh I feel sad hence I must be depressed" while clinically he/she's not emtionally sick, but kinda the opposite, he/she's just a human being that is not a psycopath, lol.
Fair point. This is definitely what I did mean in my first post, that AnY has the advantage that the guy was written to appeal to girls, and the love story. That's why he probably ends up coming out better as a husbando, because the plot needs his husbando qualities to shine.O
That's not what a husbando is, or at least not how it should be. According to the wiki: it's a fictional character from non-live-action visual media (typically an anime, manga or video game) to whom one is attracted and, in some cases, whom one considers a significant other. You're not measuring how likely it would be for you to be the SO, you're evaluating what appeals to you in a love interest. If you follow that path that a lot of nominations are just bad, since those characters alrdy have their SO (Holo and Lawrence, Mikasa and Eren, Maes and Gracia, Guts and Casca, Ban and Ellen, Erwin and Mary, and so on). It's actually easier to say it's doubtful to know if Saeki would be a good husbando 'cause you have no references for him in a romantic field, but then again, it's about what appeals to you the most, so we can go there as well. It does help me that, unlike Saeki, Hak is a love interest so we do have enough ground to base our claims that he's something attractive as a husbando - to whoever likes how he behaves with Yona.
"many things"Uh? XD People burst, people say things without thinking, people feel lost and compelled and confused and overwhelmed at times, all of us, that doesn't make us all sick or dangerous or abnormal o.o That's another stretch^^" And yeah, people have thoughts and feelings that they'd be ashamed of others finding out but that doesn't mean those aren't things that others don't feel as well. We're animals, we still have instincts, urges, and having awareness and control over them is what set us apart from many things.
Also, "lose control" is so vague and subjective and could go so many ways... "I lose control of my thoughts and can't think straight", "I lose control and feel like I could just kiss her already", "I lose control and also my sleep", etc.
If anything, as you said, that just makes Hak feels more real, authentic and relatable.
LOL I definitely dropped it cause Yona was so....:'v girl pls.Dw, Hak isn't that well known nor popular. Many heard of AnY but never checked or dropped it after some time cause Yona is such a brain cancer '_'
We'll both have to work our arses here xD
And yeah, I imagine only us will be reading each other if we go on for 5 days in this pace xDDD
lmao dw you weren't offensive nor anything.LOL sorry ^^' If I go hard I go hard.
Don't worry, I just go based by what I see. What I see is, Yona and Hak are childhood friends. Since they have grown up together from such a young age, it's natural for a sibling relation to form, or at least that's how it is stated theoretically.
I know you have the entire "yeah but they're not actually related", point is that the romantic relationship is based that, and despite how much people love to rave around childhoodfriends to lovers, if it's young as that, it feels unnatural, because the brain registers those persons differently. If it does turn into love, it's a malfunction, and yes, that's entirely human. I never said he was a psychopath for it. I never said that he's a mental nutjob, only that it's an indicator for something probably not being right, a leadup.
And while I know that all humans have problems, it doesn't mean that it can just be overlooked, because I think it's a valid argument. I just don't think it's the best way to start a relationship.
It does help if I knew how old Yona and Hak were back then, so I can go more into detail about development, but that's up to you.
Yeaaaah I'm not a fan of specicism talks ç.ç I don't like to draw that line separating every single animal from us 'cause there are different levels of development and intelligence in the animal kingdom. It does separate us from some of them (a worm is an animal alrdy) and from "malfunctioning" human beings as well."many things"
Like, animals? '-' I mean, yeah we probably differ from plants...they aren't out true roots anyway.
It's very vague, which means that it can also be taken the bad way. Again, he's human and authentic, but for me personally, it's not a desirable trait. Just like Saeki's stubbornness isn't.
lol yeah ITS A FINE LINE BETWEEN SHITPOSTING. And yeah, it's just an abnormality that's a bit more taboo to talk about in our med community. At that age I'd guess there's probably a sibling bond turned weird, but I'm not here to psychoanalyze :'3clmao dw you weren't offensive nor anything.
Ok idk enough about psycology to go further in the topic with you but I think that saying that everybody that grows to love someone they knew ever since they were a child as having a sibling complex sounds like generalization, and I'm kinda skeptical about having that as a rule or something o.o
I don't recall their age but they were quite young, yeah.
To be fair, with the case where he rescued the one drowning dude, Saeki was the only one who jumped into action. And he didn't even notice the drowning person.Btw, it's nice to see that the athletical type would go out of his way to save people from a sinking ship but imagine how big of a douche he'd be if he'd just leave them to die considering he's in way better shape than the majority xD
Aah...the philosophy part...it's too convoluted for me ^^'lYeaaaah I'm not a fan of specicism talks ç.ç I don't like to draw that line separating every single animal from us 'cause there are different levels of development and intelligence in the animal kingdom. It does separate us from some of them (a worm is an animal alrdy) and from "malfunctioning" human beings as well.