Archived The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread

[Naomi]

Wish I could double thank your post, Googz. It's so weird when I hear someone talk about something that I've felt before. It makes me feel less alone and helps me accept my feelings finally instead of just constantly putting them in the corner of my mind.

"If I can't love you as a lover,I will love you as a friend." I decided this once with someone I knew, concluding that I would love them in any way, shape, or form as long as I could keep loving them. Sad to say that although my situation was blissful for some time, it didn't last and ended badly. Pay attention to your feelings and face them, even when they're negative, even when it's difficult. Losing someone can be effortless, but the work exerted towards keeping them is worth that and so much more.

 

[M3J]

I think all I can do is continue to be who I am, and who knows? We do like each other, even if it's muddled by each other's stubbornness and fears.

That's stupid. Don't think you can continue to be who you are.

BE who you are. If you have to hide it from people, they don't deserve your friendship, relationship, or vaginaship. Those who accept you for who you are are worth it.

It's why I always cherish those that have accepted my immature douchebag ways like Gary and eni and I know that they're good people. Though, I'm not sure if you also observe people and how they react toward douches.

And I got to see a bunch of guys in my dorm's main room dressing for the drag show (lookin' super sexy in their corsets and skimpy bridesmaid dresses), and managed to get some entomology done (and some astro last night).

Astroglide?

 

[earthforge]

That's stupid. Don't think you can continue to be who you are.

Poor wording on my part. My point was I never stopped being who I am... It's my family's stubbornness. Heck, it gets in the way of socializing, but professionalism is how I've gotten to university and got many research projects. That's why if somebody wants to attack me, they say I'm arrogant or antisocial. It hurts because I do feel, and sometimes I care way too much, but I won't let myself be talked down to. There's a lot of girls in science who have let themselves bend with the punches and either not fight or backstab.

Astroglide?

Amateur astronomy, you curry-filled gender-indeterminate pastry.

 

[M3J]

+5. I admire anyone who stands up for themselves. As long as you're honest and not being a bitch, people shouldn't be assholes about it. Guess they don't like hearing the truth.

Whoa whoa whoa, pastry? Can't I be Pepsi or pizza? Or be filled with cheese or sugar?



I confess I really could stay up all night listening to music and want to. One the few times that I actually voluntarily relax (I hate relaxing because it's too boring, I LOVE being stressed and sleep deprived and shit for some reason...).

 

[xi0]

I don't know enough about the situation Googz. I think I mentioned it before, but there's probably some unspoken things going on between you two. I wouldn't rush to judgment on what her friends were talking about, who knows. You don't always have to act nonchalant, showing that you care enough to be curious isn't a bad thing necessarily.

The whole thing is painful/depressing because you care. You allowed yourself to. It's strange feeling but it isn't unique, this happens to everyone. Don't let things go unspoken for too long would be my advice. I personally can't live like that because I never really have.

 

[M3J]

Confess if it feels right. If I listened to my guts more often, I'd have had a girlfriend by now, most likely.


I confess I have absolutely no fucking idea when I'm being serious or when I joke, in a lot of things I say. This sucks. :\

 

[Adorien]

I confess I might disappear from MH one day, just because of some reasons. And it's not like I post in a lot of sections or anything. xD I mostly go to the Fun Forum to have fun, obviously. I like MH mainly because of being able to interact with people and so far I've had a lot of fun doing that, but sometimes I feel like I'm getting annoying.

I confess there were times I tried not to come back here but I always return cause I like it too much here. It's an important place.. thing... whatever it is, to me.

I hope I continue to have fun with you all. ^^

 

[M3J]

Just because you feel like you're getting annoying doesn't mean you are. It just means you suck at feeling.

Don't worry about it, keep posting. If people complain, tell them to bite your shiny metal ass.

 

[Naomi]

I confess that I built a three by five foot canvas two years ago and I never painted anything on it.

This summer, I'm going to do it.

Which scares me shitless since I haven't painted in nearly a year. Not a single thing. I wonder what I'll create.

 

[M3J]

Paint a bear wrestling a thorn in an erotic way.

 

[Googlez_kun]

Thanks to everyone for all those words!They really help.

Googlez, you know for sure they're not talking about you? All I guess you can do is ask her. If it's clear it's not you, then sorry, bro, but there's next time. I'm in similar situation, and although I do like her, her happiness is more important.

There's just something about the one we love's smile. You just don't ever want to see that go away so much that you'd move Earth to keep her smiling.

Oh how I wish they were talking about me,but I'm 98% sure they meant someone else.(One percent is purely optimistic hope and the other percent is looking at it realistically,since the possibility exists).I will definitly try to ask her about it.If that will be possible upon seeing her that is.
Anyhow,good luck with your girl!

Strange,isn't it?

Wish I could double thank your post, Googz. It's so weird when I hear someone talk about something that I've felt before. It makes me feel less alone and helps me accept my feelings finally instead of just constantly putting them in the corner of my mind.

"If I can't love you as a lover,I will love you as a friend." I decided this once with someone I knew, concluding that I would love them in any way, shape, or form as long as I could keep loving them. Sad to say that although my situation was blissful for some time, it didn't last and ended badly. Pay attention to your feelings and face them, even when they're negative, even when it's difficult. Losing someone can be effortless, but the work exerted towards keeping them is worth that and so much more.

Glad I was able to help you with that post!

Thanks!I will follow the advice and do as you and earthforge said.It will be tough,but probably worth it in the end.

I don't know enough about the situation Googz. I think I mentioned it before, but there's probably some unspoken things going on between you two. I wouldn't rush to judgment on what her friends were talking about, who knows. You don't always have to act nonchalant, showing that you care enough to be curious isn't a bad thing necessarily.

The whole thing is painful/depressing because you care. You allowed yourself to. It's strange feeling but it isn't unique, this happens to everyone. Don't let things go unspoken for too long would be my advice. I personally can't live like that because I never really have.

I'm not intending to keep it a secret,as I'm the same as you there.In fact,talking about my feelings with her seems easier now,so I'll take my chance soon(even though it depends on how things develop in the near future).

Confess if it feels right. If I listened to my guts more often, I'd have had a girlfriend by now, most likely.

I confess that I'm the same.The hottest girl in school could've been my girlfriend,but I was not particularly interested in her,so even though she tried her best,I kept rejecting her and she got bored.Maybe I should've taken the chance?Wouldn't have felt right,but I guess I could've collected some experience.

 

[Adorien]

Just because you feel like you're getting annoying doesn't mean you are. It just means you suck at feeling.

Don't worry about it, keep posting. If people complain, tell them to bite your shiny metal ass.

But I'm not Franky.

Anyway, I'll just get over it like always. Thanks for your words, Milly!

Googz, good luck with the girl! Sorry, but I'm in no place to give you any advice. I can only wish the best for you.

Naomi, when you finish painting, show it to us all if you want. ^^

---------- Post added at 06:15 PM ---------- Previous post was at 05:28 PM ----------

O.o Why does my post say "Curry Badger"?

I confess I feel confused. O.O

 

[xi0]

Paint a bear wrestling a thorn in an erotic way.

I'm sure she can find better inspiration than that

 

[Gats]

I confess I might disappear from MH one day, just because of some reasons. And it's not like I post in a lot of sections or anything. xD I mostly go to the Fun Forum to have fun, obviously. I like MH mainly because of being able to interact with people and so far I've had a lot of fun doing that, but sometimes I feel like I'm getting annoying.

I confess there were times I tried not to come back here but I always return cause I like it too much here. It's an important place.. thing... whatever it is, to me.

I hope I continue to have fun with you all. ^^

Now you're annoying.​

Joke aside, it happens to everyone to feel like that (maybe Milly is the exception). There is nothing to worry about. You can "annoy" us all the way !

 

[xi0]

You could annoy me so hard right now

 

[Adorien]

Now you're annoying.​

Joke aside, it happens to everyone to feel like that (maybe Milly is the exception). There is nothing to worry about. You can "annoy" us all the way !

Okay. Thank you.

And poor Milly.

You could annoy me so hard right now

I know, right? ;.;

 

[M3J]

Now you're annoying.​

Joke aside, it happens to everyone to feel like that (maybe Milly is the exception). There is nothing to worry about. You can "annoy" us all the way !

GTFO you butthole. D:

 

[Adorien]

I confess I need to say something now... But don't be mad, kay?

...

Milly

 

[M3J]

Backstabber.

 

[kdowns]

I confess, I find it really fun just to say Milly because it gets auto corrected... :3