Archived The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

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So, ahem..

I confess I met a guy and I went on a date with him around two weeks ago. I didn't feel like I like him and things, but I felt drawn to him somehow. So silly me went to a second date the next day. That usually means you kinda like the person, right? Well, in my case, I was just being my weird and lonely self and I didn't think straight. So I kept seeing the guy almost every day til now. He told me he likes me and I told him that I want to stay friends, meaning I friendzoned him. But do you feel attracted to someone you have friendzoned? That isn't supposed to happen. I kinda felt like he's cute and there has been some tension going on. I let him hug me a couple of times. Like those long hugs. And the last couple of days things kinda went overboard. He almost kissed me... a lot of times. So I needed to step away, because it's killing me. It's not what I want. I can't be the person that just goes along with whatever is happening. I feel like I'm hurting myself exactly where I know I hurt the most right now. And I feel so stupid stupid stupid. So I told the guy I need some distance, but I really want to keep seeing him as a friend. ._. It might not work out though, cause things have been pretty weird, at least for me.
 

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Oh those long awkward hugs when there's that awkward atmosphere between two people :lmao

When someone comes to kiss you and you turn sideways and it turns into one of those hugs :faint

Same thing happened between me and a classmate I really liked as a friend in the past. I didn't want to date her even though there was some sexual tension between us and loads of chemestry but I liked her friendship.

In the end we stopped talking much until she got another boyfriend. Than we were able to talk normally again but our friendship wasn't as close. I also kind regreted sometimes not having dated her cuse we were like perfect for each other so think very well about what you do or you might regret it like I did :p
 

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No, I'm sure exactly where I stand in this and what I want from the situation. But man, I've never felt like this before. :faint
 

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I confess that my tears are not cold.
 

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I confess that I'm thankful I have a versatile personality and that I'm actually good with people.

I confess I'm actually sometimes thankful.

I confess that I do hate myself, and that I have pretty harsh thoughts about myself.

I confess I do want to change myself so I can respect myself more. This means no procrastinating, being more social, getting rid of my shyness, working hard and putting more effort, and etc.

I confess I've been trying this for years, but it's not as easy. I think I did make some improvements with shyness, though. :\
 

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I have some problems with the way I view myself too, Milly. Let's work it out! :arf
 

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Be each other's therapist and psychologist! :arf Or psychiatrist... whta's the difference, really?

But you better be harsh on me. D:


So, let's start. Are you sexually repressed? :oh
 

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Be each other's therapist and psychologist! :arf Or psychiatrist... whta's the difference, really?
Psychiatrists are doctors and can subscribe medicine. Psychologists are not doctors and may not prescribe medicine. A practicing psychologist will have a doctorate, while a psychiatrist attended medical school.
 

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I confess that when I got into my car after my final exam, I immediately started crying. It only lasted for about half of a song, but still. I'll be taking this shit again in a couple of weeks. I'm sure of it.

Fuck. UTA. Mathematics.
 

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Oh, k. I knew they were different but forgot how. All I remembered was psychiatrists worked with patients.


I confess I'm absolutely appalled at my friend and his girlfriend saying their blonde kid (friend's girlfriend's son with another guy, methinks) can't be from my friend because they both have black hair. The girlfriend proved she has blonde hair allele, and judging from her reaction, she has a blonde boyfriend. Not sure if friend has blonde allele, though.

I confess I facepalmed hard at that. They never heard of Punnet square? Cuz seriously... black hair doesn't mean no different hair-colored kids, it depends on the allele, but it means the kid's more likely to have black hair. -_-
 

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They both work with patients, but psychiatrists prescribe medicine. A psychologist has a doctorate but didn't attend medical school. They offer different types a therapy. Not that a psychiatrist doesn't, but in recent history psychiatrists work in combination with a psychologist or licensed therapist/social worker.
 
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I confess that when I got into my car after my final exam, I immediately started crying. It only lasted for about half of a song, but still. I'll be taking this shit again in a couple of weeks. I'm sure of it.

Fuck. UTA. Mathematics.
Riiiight, you had your exam on tuesday! How did it go?
 

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Update: I confess things are going well with that guy, we might end up pretty good friends. ^^

Also, I'm seriously thinking about the possibility of studying abroad next year, so I'll see how that goes. I wanna try to get accepted at least, then I'll think about it. :p
 

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I confess that when I got into my car after my final exam, I immediately started crying. It only lasted for about half of a song, but still. I'll be taking this shit again in a couple of weeks. I'm sure of it.

Fuck. UTA. Mathematics.
Sounds like my math final last spring. Even the professor looked shell-shocked.

Anyways, congrats on getting through your final!

I confess I have a massive headache, probably due to an unhealthy combo of allergies and someone with an incredible lack of tact. I mean, really - I was going to offer her a position on my project with my PI, but she refused to deal with me and treated me like an idiot. I felt so offended, but then I realized that she was the one who, on the record, shot herself in the foot, in front of my PI no less.

Upside: My project is back to being mine again, woohoo!
Downside: Oh mother of god, this headache...
 

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Еarthforge needs a hug. :comfort Maybe you need some rest?
 

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I confess I think people should be fucking honored if I act more like myself around them. It means I'm comfortable enough with them and trust them. Currently, out of tons of friends I have, there's like, at most five people that I trust and am comfortable with.
 

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I confess that I have a total of like... three friends that I still like to hang out with, but I'm very comfortable around all of them.

And Googz, the exam was abysmal. :bored
 
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I confess I think people should be fucking honored if I act more like myself around them. It means I'm comfortable enough with them and trust them. Currently, out of tons of friends I have, there's like, at most five people that I trust and am comfortable with.
They should feel honored if they look up to you...that's another requirement
 

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Huh? Why would they look up to me?
 
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