I avoid romantic conversations in real life unless it's my best friend.
When I was 18, I made a conscious decision to put my studies and money before finding a partner. Just like
@Elusia.
I tried to but I had lots of peer pressure to try dating......I had a few flings. Never fell in love or tried. I was not happy. I stop. I went back to being a loner. I've been happy ever since. ...However, I'm getting older and many people are curious about my dating life. They won't stop trying to hook me up...it's annoying. Part of me wonders if I'm holding on too long lol
I can't help it. I feel indifferent towards men. It's a mixture of priorities and one's nature...
Anyway, I believe love is a choice.