I'll address both points here as you seem to have a misunderstanding of how the Senate works, and Democrats' views on abortion. The simplicity of "they had plenty of chances to codify Roe v Wade for decades" implies two assumptions to me: That you think parties always vote in lock step, and that filibusters don't exist. This is assuming a bill has cleared the House of Representatives. So to codify Roe v Wade, you need a majority of Representatives to vote Yea on the bill. It then goes to the Senate where you will need
60 votes to override the incoming Filibuster. Democrats have never been entirely pro-choice in their history, so even with a Senate super majority you can assume you'd still have some "Nays" who would allow a Filibuster which would ultimately kill the bill.
Consider the Affordable Care Act.
Democrats had 255 seats during the vote, and the motion BARELY passed due to the possibility of the bill funding abortions with public funds. Do you really think they could have just codified abortion when they barely passed the Affordable Care Act with a super majority in the House and Senate? This isn't Democrats who "like to talk but not take action" as you put it. This is Democrats who are openly pro-life, as is their voter base. Is it right? Probably not. Is it fair? Definitely not. It's just how it is. All that said, the implication that the stars have lined up perfectly for codification multiple times is
false.
This is pretty vague. As far as US Presidents go he's the only one who's ever actually done anything to combat Islamophobia, so I'm not sure what you're even talking about.