Yeah thanks for sharing this. I said truly cause I know about this and yet I fail to fully understand. From my point of view it‘s more creepy and superficial but it‘s a cultural thing and I‘m trying to respect that (somehow).
I'm with you here.
As far as I'm concerned, I'm respecting the culture by not participating it - I don't even think there's much to understand, I find it creepy and wrong.
There are cultures that actually condone slavery, I don't believe things just become acceptable just because it's protected by the concept of culture.
It's like when it came out that Pudding was 14 and Sanji was actually going to marry her, that doesn't go down well in the west and it was changed to 16 to make it more acceptable? Not sure if this was why, or Oda genuinely made a typo.
Do I think that dynamic is fine? Hell no, but by not participating in that culture, that's as far as my respect for the culture can be expressed.
I saw something similar where a South Korean weather broadcaster got shamed and humiliated for coming out with having a relationship. Her fans were mostly males of course. She was forced to apologise by her company on public TV or something of that nature. This is something common there from the little exposure I've had to this information, but I may be wrong.
Fair, maybe it's the culture, but it is creepy, and unhealthy that any culture would allow men to obsess over women in an unhealthy Para social manner, and capitalise on it to make profit. It's also unfair to the women.
The idol worship thing, I'm not a fan of - I think things like that will cultivate the worst sort of men that society doesn't need.
That said, I still finding it F*&KING disgusting that Oda allowed people to actually objectify Jewellery Bonney... and he also did too... she's wearing barely decent clothing.... turns out she's 12 years old. Somethings are just despicable imo, he could have kept her backstory and left her as an adult.