so much to reply to, so little time...
first of all I have to say that all questions asked in this thread have been deep and delved into deep intellectual matters, as pleasesd as I am with this I have to say that not all questions could be answered by the simple people who try answering, I am no scholar and will not claim to be and if I dont know I'll say I dont know.
first techno magus, ramadan mubarak means have a blessed rmadan also at eid you can say eid mubarak which means have a blessed eid, but thats the international arabic term you could find things that relate to a culture or country.
second of all, how is information interpreted from the higher ups, will I am sunni muslim and my answer is my simple knowledge about how we function, first the source of islam is two things, the quran, and the prophet, the prophet meaning sunnah, therefore we are called sunni, which means related to the sunnah, sunnah means anything the prophet said did or approved of, that is the source of all islamic knowledge and law, there is the third source, which is what hasnt been touched by the quran and sunnah, the prophet informed to do ijtihad, which means a scholar is allowed to give a fatwa about something based on his knowledge intellect faith and the information he has about an issue.
after the prophets time there were interpretations of the quran and sunnah which differed, but many men which I repect and am proud to have in my heritage have risked their lives travelling and collecting the info, and later four interpretations are the ones that are followed, the four ways are called after their founders, abu haneefa, imam malek, al imam alshafei, al imam ahmad, there was so much that was done in those times that I cannont write in one post, so I'll leave it at that, a scholar would simply study the work done then and teach it to us, the basis in all four ways is the same, and by the way the founders of the four ways were once all student and teacher chronlogically, the important thing is that they based their opinions on the quran and sunnah, hope that answers it.
now ddadain, your questions dont have answers, you have gone so deep in this in philosophical manner that I cant see you finding answers but by yourself, by your own experiences, or actually asking someone face to face who might or might not have the answers to your questions, so seek someone known for being knowledgable and ask him, there isnt much that I can say to you, but you seem to think that the only way to feel free is to be able to doubt, I do not belive in this, there is a difference between a freedom to choose and a freedom to doubt, but me saying this doesnt make a real difference since you seem to think it strongly,I am not going to lecture you on every verse that has kill in it in the quran and tell you why it really is peaceful, but you have not read it fully and seem to be judging, simply put, your questions cant be answered on a manga forum, all that I can tell you was my peoples history proved to me that islams way was right, I doubted and seeked and found, I looked for the answers and found them thats all I can say.
hope that helped, though I doubt it did much

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