Life Single or Married and why

[Sεn]

Single, although ideally I'll get married once I meet the right person and I'm done with school.

 

[dpsoul]

I'm enjoying single-blessedness ^-^(well, i'm only 15 so what do you expect, hihi)Anyways, about marriage, hmm, i've never really thought about it. I'm neutral about the topic, it's okay to be single all my life and it's also okay for me to get wed, well, uhm, i'll just cross the bridge when I get there
Erm, well, if I'll get married, I'll make sure first that I'm stable/successful in my chosen career
If I'm gonna enjoy single-blessedness, then hello foundations,donations and scholarship grants^-^ I'll help many people and at the same time make more money for myself(legally and in good ways)

 

[DARK]

Single, because as a young adult I want to get my life settled before I get hitched.

 

[bakagemi]

I'd very much rather be single, because if you're single, you'd have less of a chance of someone dragging you down in your life. Also, you get more FREEDOM, and for countless people (not me), they get to flirt with as much people they like, without someone screaming at them in jealousy. See the benefits of being single, people with boyfriends/girlfriends and married peeps?

 

[Paper]

Single. Why? Because I value my freedom, plus I'd rather stay single than pay an insanely large amount of money for a divorce in the future. I don't really get along with people in general; people find me too frank, apathetic, and stern to deal with so I'm only able to keep friends who share the same sentiments. Women don't normally respond to my type positively since we're just seen as walking computers, and that's not exactly a bad thing by my book. Better to stay the way I am and be productive/efficient in my field than be a useless prick, tied down to a family that holds you back.

 

[Yusaku Jon 3]

Single. There really hasn't been that much to interest me about women personally since I feel like I'm financially unready and have some pretty stringent standards as to what kind of woman I'd want to be dating or married to. I had a few crushes in my youth, but lost the opportunity to follow up on them before they flitted away.

 

[soDeq05]

Single. I am going to get married when I'm 23
XD

 

[Eternal]

I'd prefer staying single until I'm finished with anything relating to school, studying, and finding a job. Then I'll consider who to get with.

 

[bakagemi]

I'm not thinking about marriage or getting together at all. I think it's a big waste of time. My thoughts only, though, so no offense anyone.

 

[Ascension]

I would like to marry my girlfriend in approximately a year or two. Did the superficial single fling thing for about 4 years. It was fun. Then found a great match. Couldn't be happier.

 

[bakagemi]

Wow...you sound real happy with your girl. Best of luck to you, man.

 

[Xadyu]

I'm currently single, somewhere at the end of this month I'm officially single for 2 years.

I've had crushes in that time, but nothing to serious, most of the girls I didn't even know. I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the time either, I'm not interested, mainly because I couldn't care less and because my life's kind of a mess now, I couldn't handle a girlfriend even if I got one, lol.

I'm not planning on marrying, never, I don't see why people should marry. It's all phony if you ask me.

 

[megadud20]

I wouldn't mind ending up single as long as I can be more adventurous and take advantage of things like traveling (which is hard to when settled down). I can take my time. I'm happy being single. People often think that I'll never find the person for me because my problem is that I am very picky of whom I want to spend the rest of my life with.

I want to make make sure I end up with the best possible wife EVER so that my babies will be very damn awesome in every way.
Hormone-wise, I have good control, so I think being seduced or forced into marriage, or ending up with someone of poor quality is something that wont work on me (or isn't likely to happen). I'm 21, very independent, and always working towards improvement.
Now here's the kicker: as a person who is always looking to improve, I would require my future spouse to do the same... This means she has to at least try being athletic in some way instead of being a fatty. The reason for this is more than just external; it shows uncommon traits that she is not willing to let comfort sabotage her reality (by becoming fat). I personally see this trait useful in many ways, because I can learn from her, and she can learn from me. In other words, I look for internal quality that'll transcend into the external. I won't settle for less.

My belief is that in improving myself up to a certain point, I'll be able to deserve (or attract?) someone with similar values who wouldn't settle for a different guy who doesn't have those values.

Does anyone here think the same way as I do? How about the opposite? I'd like to hear what you think.

 

[Sakatsu]

Eh, there is still too many downsides to being married for myself. I will remain unmarried as long as I want to.


Although I do like the financial stability thing, its pretty hard living with one income with a comfortable place where I live so having two combined incomes opens a lot of opportunities.

 

[nanaDmari]

Oh, my... I'm just too young to be married!
So... I'm single... enjoying my life...

and when I took the psychological test for my driver's license the guy said I was too demanding and rigorous... so maybe that's the real reason why I'm single XD

I'm also in favor of the financial stability before marriage...

 

[shaheer]

single , actually i dont even have time to find some one for me, studying engg is too hard, the free time i get i pass it leisurely, like sleeping or sitting in front of my Pc

 

[DLord.Van.Buuren]

through my observation generally most members are less than 25 years old i believe that none of them is married . well if anyone here is married then have all the good luck because you'll need it .

 

[megadud20]

single , actually i dont even have time to find some one for me, studying engg is too hard, the free time i get i pass it leisurely, like sleeping or sitting in front of my Pc

Story of my life

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I believe it's good that some of you are deciding until accomplishing things like finishing school, etc before settling down. Many of my friends who have gotten married before age 25, have a pretty hard time living together because of small imperfections that every young adult has. (Like not knowing how to cook, lack of money, immaturity, ect...)
Don't get me wrong, there are some cases where this is an exception, or where it can be beneficial for the couple (like a shotgun wedding). Pretty much, what I'm trying to say is don't rush things. Take time to enjoy things you wont be able to do later on (like school).
Nothing good can ever come out of marrying before your time.

But then again, what do I know? I'm just pro single...

 

[alice&uncas]

Single because I just love being single, I don't like being tie down, too much drama in my life, and trying to accmpolish more important things in my life.

 

[steelwingcrash1]

I plan to get married by 28 or 29. By then, I already have saved enough for financial needs.

Of course I want to get married. I need someone to take care of me when I get old.