Y'know, you could find the answer to those questions pre~tty easily by looking through this thread... I daresay they've been answered enough times ~~
Quick answer: I'm British, and I learned Japanese through a little self-study, a little evening course, and two years (so far) of university study. I've never actually been to Japan, though this will no longer be true on Wednesday.
cool, so you are going to japan?
whats the first place you want to see?
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about what we talked earlier... Have you ever watch the movie with Will Smith, Hitch... something about love?
He helps a fat dude to get a hottie blond woman(she wasn't thaaaat hot)
well, will smith talks about something that is very true... Men need to be confident.
And I can tell thats true based on myself. Untill 17 I was very unconfident and it just fucked up with me... and it comes with the thought: "I am different. I am romantic, I am not a jerk as other guys are" etc
I don't know if thats ur case or anyones here, but if I could tip someone is to be confident.
Seriously, be confident.