You're too harsh on your "friend". Making stupid decisions is part of the "gaining experience" process, hopefully he'll learn from his mistakes and find the right way.
The little fuck deserves the harshness. How many times has he complained about stuff, and ignored advice of everyone that tried to help him out? And then he says retarded stuff, and comes up with excuses as result. Making stupid decisions is okay, but making completely retarded decisions that only kids would make is NOT okay. And this guy is like, a year older than I am.
The problem got resolved, but it was a day after he finally listened to our advice. Basically, I was right about everything that would have happened. And he kept being naive. -_-
You'd definitely get annoyed if your friend kept on fucking up and not listening to you, despite whining a lot and you trying to help him out. I even told him he's an idiot and needs to stop listening to himself, and start listening to people that have his best interests at heart, considering how he's always wrong, and we're usually right.
But it's better to save someone before he falls down a cliff and breaks his limbs, isn't it? That's only the devil in you wanting that person to get hurt for not following your advice, it's a selfish reason. If you don't want a person to get hurt, you better not put him through unneeded suffering to reach that goal.
Yet, I have that certain person too, did all I can, so did every of his friends, so did everyone in his family. I admit I gave him up already, but what can one do... damn it! I lecture but can't follow my own advice. He's free to do whatevery he wants, seems to be an execuse, but that's how our society works between adults.
What's the point though, if he will refuse to listen to you no matter what?
And I wonder if Milly's talking about himself in third person.
I'm not. I'm not a dumbass, and despite what you guys think, I'm sufficiently smart enough to not get in that kind of trouble.
I've complained about this guy to Zat before.