Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 2

[earthforge]

Nah. I think it's perfectly understandable to be bothered by the notion of someone bragging about deliberately abusing someone sexually. That's not a normal or acceptable behavior.

 

[scav]

oi oi i don't remember any abuse, this is just overreacting. quit trying making someone a victim out of this story, there is none

 

[M3J]

suppose you're good enough for your ego to be so big that u believe u're in position to judge other ppl without knowing shit bout them. if you live in your world were everything is pink good for you, i live in mine and its different

I do not have an ego. And in case you don't know anything about real life, virginboy, which I doubt you do, everyone judges everyone, whether they're in position to do so or not. That's a typical defense of a cheating ass when confronted, that and getting too defensive. Doesn't matter what world you live in, it's still bad to not only abuse a girl (or guy) sexually and mentally, but it's also bad to cheat on your significant other. And you most likely know this.

 

[Imperium]

This topic of conversation has gone from to very quickly

What are you talking about? It's getting good.

 

[earthforge]

oi oi i don't remember any abuse, this is just overreacting. quit trying making someone a victim out of this story, there is none

Nope - you made yourself the victim first. You expressed how this woman completely unmanned you verbally and you were embarrassed. You got a lot of sympathy.

Now you bragged about getting revenge by having sex with her and then saying she's just a whore. That's disturbing. (And yeah, that qualifies as abuse because you intended to hurt her.)

The sensible approach would've been to ignore her. Remarkably, when you do that, people hold a higher opinion of you. You would've risked nothing and gained much more.

Instead, you have opened yourself up to all kinds of bad scenarios. I don't have to tell you that had you done this with someone else, you might've gotten a sexual assault lawsuit.

 

[Imperium]

Wait, having sex with someone and then insulting them is liable for a sexual assault lawsuit? What legal system are you living under?

 

[xi0]

Wait, having sex with someone and then insulting them is liable for a sexual assault lawsuit? What legal system are you living under?

I think she meant she could have caused legal problems for him by claiming certain things...dunno

 

[M3J]

Wait, having sex with someone and then insulting them is liable for a sexual assault lawsuit? What legal system are you living under?

Out of fear of NSA, I cannot answer this question sarcastically and negatively as I do not wish to be arrested by the government.



I confess I find black and white films to be art, so much better than color in an artistic sense.

 

[Imperium]

I think she meant she could have caused legal problems for him by claiming certain things...dunno

Ah of course. Ye olde rape card.

 

[xi0]

I confess I find black and white films to be art, so much better than color in an artistic sense.

Go back to Twitter, pls

 

[Imperium]

I confess I think if milly was Aziz Ansari's cousin, he would feature prominently in his standup routine.

 

[xi0]

I confess I think if milly was Aziz Ansari's cousin, he would feature prominently in his standup routine.

Haha, I saw that one special. Indeed.

 

[scav]

Nope - you made yourself the victim first. You expressed how this woman completely unmanned you verbally and you were embarrassed. You got a lot of sympathy.

Now you bragged about getting revenge by having sex with her and then saying she's just a whore. That's disturbing. (And yeah, that qualifies as abuse because you intended to hurt her.)

The sensible approach would've been to ignore her. Remarkably, when you do that, people hold a higher opinion of you. You would've risked nothing and gained much more.

Instead, you have opened yourself up to all kinds of bad scenarios. I don't have to tell you that had you done this with someone else, you might've gotten a sexual assault lawsuit.

i laughed when reading that, no offense.

 

[M3J]

Go back to Twitter, pls

stfu

I confess I think if milly was Aziz Ansari's cousin, he would feature prominently in his standup routine.

Naw, I'd be more popular than Aziz.

 

[xi0]

stfu


Naw, I'd be more popular than Aziz.

 

[M3J]

What a relevant post.

 

[earthforge]

Wait, having sex with someone and then insulting them is liable for a sexual assault lawsuit? What legal system are you living under?

I think she meant she could have caused legal problems for him by claiming certain things...dunno

Exactly. Law has nothing to do with facts. Only resolution of grievances.

 

[benelori]

Let me add my dose of scav bashing here

suppose you're good enough for your ego to be so big that u believe u're in position to judge other ppl without knowing shit bout them. if you live in your world were everything is pink good for you, i live in mine and its different

You are mistaken in this...it's not really a question of love and pink feelings, when it comes to cheating...in a committed relationship is more an issue of respect...but your relationship, as you said, is different...if the partners are fine with each other, then it's okay...I don't find this "cheating" issue much of an issue anyway...

But I agree with the others when it comes to acting low with the other chick...you slept with her, then called her a whore and whatever and made her a victim...while in this whole issue you were a victim too...you were both disrespectful to each other and you were both whores

But you admitted yourself, that you were an asshole with her, so all is in peace

 

[earthforge]

I confess this week has gone from hell to awesome. I managed to get my housing back in place and get to work with the financial aid adviser to work out the budget (she basically got overruled by her boss and they made an exception on my behalf to let me stay in my nice residence hall single room)! I'm getting a conference abstract reviewed and submitted! I have professors contacting my club to do talks! To top it all off, the latest AnE chapter is the best chapter of AnE I have read in the last two years!

Life just turned from hell to awesome in a day.

 

[benelori]

I confess this week has gone from hell to awesome. I managed to get my housing back in place and get to work with the financial aid adviser to work out the budget (she basically got overruled by her boss and they made an exception on my behalf to let me stay in my nice residence hall single room)! I'm getting a conference abstract reviewed and submitted! I have professors contacting my club to do talks! To top it all off, the latest AnE chapter is the best chapter of AnE I have read in the last two years!

Life just turned from hell to awesome in a day.

Or maybe it was just a regular chapter, but you're otherwise awesome life put a different light on it...I'd like to see you have everything you wanted in this world, and then comment on a Naruto chapter