All you can do right now is tell her that you are there to support her, and tell her that she must not lose hopes in life, in her future. There are still chances, she has to keep strong, a lot of people have fighted and won. And yes, it ain't something that only depends on her, maybe she's tired of fighting, but she must. A lot of people will "fight"with her (more importantly, her family) and... again, hope (faith? I dunno) is the most important thing right now.
Tel her and encourage her to keep fighting the cancer and be by her side. I hope she kicks the cancer's ass hard that it's too scared to ever come back.
It will come to you.
Take a taxi next time. You need not ruin your day by seeing stuff like that.
Sadly a taxi is too expensive for me ^^ and I enjoy taking the bus but things like that are just astonishing. I mean, It's not my day that is ruined it's more like the girl's day. It's kind of a sexual harrassment and that shouldn't happen. I actually regret not having done anything.
I still don't know what to say.. but she had an appointment today and she was really anxious and scared, so I kept chatting bullshit with her on the whatsapp while she was on the waiting room, trying to distract her a little
I think you should have done something though. If nothing else, act as if you knew her and make her come to you or something. Personally, I'd have beaten the old man up.
I really wanted to do something man. But when she wasn't doing anything about it and he kinda stopped (but was still very close to her ass), I felt like I shouldn't do anything. Many people knew what he was doing, they just didn't care or looked somewhere else, trust me with that kind of atmosphere, you will just feel weird if you do something, because everything is so calm and you'll just end up causing trouble, I guess it's one of those moments when you feel too awkward and you just don't know how to react.
She and others likely didn't do anything because they were too scared to. In situations like this you shouldn't care about the atmosphere, but what's right. For example, had this guy continued harassing this lady I'd have offered to switch seats with her.
Not denying that I look at asses. I do, but in front of me for like, no more than three seconds in a respectful way. None of that "I'd tap it" or "damn she so fine she blow my mind" kinda shit.Yeah I'm like you, I'd never do that...
I think that if it were me in her situation, I would want to know that I was going to be remembered. No matter what happens, for good or for worse, she won't be forgotten. I can't speak for her, obviously, and it's impossible for me to imagine myself in her situation, but I think that's how I would feel.
As a woman, I don't really care if a guy is checking out my ass or even thinking sick thoughts. He can't hurt me with his eyes. Now if he starts getting too close or touching me, you can bet I'll raise some hell.
I agree with dark lord, you don't need to see that, especially as it occurs to me you ended up being more of a 'victim' than she did. Seeing how it all bothered you, the inner conflict you were facing whether to step in or leave it be at the post that followed you from the bus and made it even share here days after.
