Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 2

[earthforge]

Ouch. Just don't leave ridiculous soulful walls of text in her email. I think you'll be fine.

I confess it sucks that, right after I get into a happy programming/studying mode, I suddenly get a text from home of "your brother and mom got into a fight" (implicit message: fix the conflict or everything will end badly). Jesus, this is why I spend a good portion of studying time watching youtube comedies! Because when these little stink bombs show up in my day, it makes it blatantly impossible to do my job or schoolwork! Argh!

 

[TheMoa]

I think that everyone, especially good friends, are expendable and can be replaced.

I also confess I place loyalty extremely high.

I don't think that these two sentences mesh very well.


And I think that good friends are kind of irreplaceabe

 

[Xadyu]

All types of friends are replaceable, good, great, best, all of them.. But the feelings and memories that remain, are not.

 

[M3J]

I don't think that these two sentences mesh very well.


And I think that good friends are kind of irreplaceabe

Whaddya mean?

Dunno, I've had plenty of good friends and have seen people who have had good friends. We all either drifted apart or it took somethin to stop the friendship.

 

[Naomi]

I think what he meant was that your two claims seemed to contradict themselves. You basically just said, "I will be extremely loyal to you, but I'll replace you without any problems."

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And I agree that most friends are short-lived and not terribly missed, but I've had a few friends that will leave a permanent void in my life that cannot be filled.

 

[M3J]

Oh. no, I wouldn't replace anyone. I'm talking about many other people, not myself. Unless something happens, I'm pretty loyal to friends.

 

[kkck]

In my case my most of my close friends have been so for well over a decade. I always got the impression that for girls friendships are far more temporary though. I don't think I have actually met 2 girls that have been close friends for over a few years so far... Even in cases where they remain friends past the 3 or 4 years make they at least have drifted apart for whatever reason.

 

[Faust]

I never had a best friend in my life and I encountered some persons with multiple best friends.
I thought a best friend should be one and only turns out that I'm wrong.

I'm admit that I'm a bad friend. There are times that I don't communicate with my friends especially those bad influence friends.

I unfriend a lot on Facebook that's why my friend list never reach 200. I'm a private person.
I don't like my college classmates so my college friends are very few.

My closes friends are my high school classmates. Friends since 2006.

I'm not friendly in the first place.

 

[digitaldude]

All types of friends are replaceable, good, great, best, all of them.. But the feelings and memories that remain, are not.

So cliche and yet so true mon.

It's amazing the amount of people I have lost touch with over the years.

 

[Xadyu]

Yeah, the last two of three years I met the same amount of people I met in all the time before that. But I'm only in contact with two of them (besides people I occasionally see at school/work, but there's no real contact there.).

But I learned from every one of them, in various aspects.

 

[Hardy]

By a girl I have a crush on since 2010.

I followed gnut and your advice about the "life is about trial and error" thing. So I decided to tell her my feelings...
First Trial, First Error

The way your finish the sentence makes it hilarious

But gnut is right though, those are some wise words right there... but on the other hand you might need to learn who to tell your feelings and how (dunno if I'm explicit enough).

But well, it's nice to see that you got the guts man ^^

Stop having crushes on everyone, that might help

So bitter :3

I read playboy for the articles

I thought you read some of those "macho" magazines

 

[Xadyu]

When I was a kid, a friend and I decided to play outside, but then we saw a cloud formed like a clown with a knife..

We got scared and ran in the house.

 

[Evil3ye]

People come and go. I am in touch with nobody from my secondary school level education, nor with anyone from third. I am pretty sure that once this semester is over I will no longer be in touch with the cycle of people from university I consider as friends at the moment either, as during the semester abroad the contact was like close to zero already.

There are others however that stayed longer than expected. Those one should value more I think.

 

[M3J]

Evil's life story is very depressing.


I confess I want a puppy the most because they're fun and playful and stay that way until they get very old. Kitties are fun and playful too, but I think they get lazy and lethargic. The only thing that makes me want a feline is that they poop in a litterbox and that I don't have to take them for a walk constantly.

 

[TheMoa]

Well, I have friends from high school that I don't see anymore because life happened... but I consider them friends nevertheless, when we do have an opportunity to see each other it's like we never lost any touch. I don't think I replaced them, I just added new ones.
But like I said, the're good friends... I guess I should call them great though. They're guys that I laughed, cried and fought for/with.

Anywya, maybe that's just me

 

[Evil3ye]

Yeah, well if you call it's sad, maybe it is... I just happened to be in those cool kids groups, since I hit puberty, who'd think their better than the rest, trying out smoking first, drinking, etc. But actually we had nothing in common apart from being in same school and/or class. So naturally after that the contact ended pretty quickly.

Before that I had a very nerdy cylce of friends, we played Pokemon, Magic the Gathering and stuff like that together, but then I traded them for alc and girls. Funny thing is, when I like ending the third level school (12th grade), they were just about to begin with the alc and girls stuff. lol, so then we kind of connected again. But for them getting wasted and shitfaced was like just the new cool thing, and I was like kinda more mature by then, so that didn't last long either.

And I have this one childhood friend, with whom I'm still a bit in touch, but it's been like one hour phone call on birthdays once a year-in touch only, so I wouldn't not call that a real friendship anymore either.

I think it's all a definition of the word "friend" in first place. Some are using it more loosely than others. For me, I would say I have two friends only at the moment.

 

[M3J]

I'm not even sure if I have any. Meh, price you pay for not being social or even talking to them much.


I confess I'm quite miserable. Not depressed, but just miserable.

 

[Evil3ye]

But at least you have a cute sig! Always look on the bright side of life.

 

[M3J]

Does not help. <_<

Meh, I just want a job and excitement in my life. It's the same old shit routine every day, and it's boring. Of course, I could be feeling like this due to sleep, whether too much or not enough I dunno.

 

[Xadyu]

Routine is shit! FUCK EVERYTHING UP MILLY!

GO CRAZY!






I did.. It was awesome.. Now I'm paying a hefty price for it though..