Hello all I'd just like to remind members on common courtesy even when you are private messaging someone. In addition if you have an issue with a moderator action to your post please remember that this is not the end of the world so take a deep breath and reply in a courteous manner as you would in any conversation or post, I don't see why this would be so difficult. Or better yet reflect a bit as to why your post was deleted or modified the answer could be right in front of you.
I'd also like to take the time to tell you all how spoiler tags are not the end of the world so if you actually go on a hissy fit or reply rudely with regard to this manner there is no helping you; keep in mind we have a quick button for spoilers so it is not difficult at all to place. If you truly have an issue that it discourages you from posting then it is no longer of my concern, its a loss but oh well such is life.
Also if a moderator action was done to your post remember to contact the said moderator before doing anything to the post. If your post happens to disappear it would be ill-advised to post it again as chances are it was deleted for an infractions, usually off topic a one liner a thank post or something better of at PM (if it is via PM you should expect a PM from said moderator replying and explaining the situation). Normally we would PM you but really if the post infraction really isn't serious you should not expect one - on the flip side it also means there is no reason to overreact regarding the matter because it really isn't serious so there is no reason to flip out over it again it is not the end of the world.
Also realize there is a case for case basis on certain matters, we aren't mindless zombies that strictly adhere to rules if so believe me a lot more things would be deleted, and we assure you that there is guidance from the global moderators or even administrators. Hence, be at ease at the fact that we do our best in looking into matters if it is indeed contentious.
Thanks