Maybe I am mistaken here but to me the acceptance of lgb folk among conservatives is not necessarily replicable for the rest of the letters. As far as I can tell even among progressive folk you'll find quite a lot of people who can barely stomach people who chose their pronouns or more crudely "girls with dicks". In large part because the gay debate didn't involve kids and their education as much. And it probably hit a little closer to home because gay folk are significantly more prevalent than trans folk. With gay folk the issue ultimately came down to not being assholes to them. With trans stuff you are talking about puberty blockers, gender affirming surgery and such things from insanely young age. There's also the education angle to consider here... At an absolute bare minimum it will take much longer for stuff after lgb to get nearly as much.... tolerance as lgb folk.This is just a natural progression. Democrats were against gay marriage when I was in High School. A serious disease was being toted by the then POTUS (Reagan) as a punishment for Sodomy. Violent crime was significantly higher from the 70s - 00's than it is today. Women were granted the right to vote only 102 years ago. We've had two great wars in the past 122 years. Basically, problems are a constantly moving target. Trans rights wouldn't have been a big discussion two decades ago, but due to progress in other areas it's what we talk about. For instance, a developing nation worries about how to feed their population. A developed nation worries how to keep their population from getting fat as fuck. I honestly don't see a mutual exclusion with economic policy and gender issues from an educational perspective. I think with economic policy most people feel like, to quote One Piece, an ant in a tsunami. You can go study it, figure it all out, come up with the right ideologies and the best case scenario is you disrupt the status quo, and host a talk radio show or something. The worst case scenario is you become successful, and give up on your ideologies in pursuit of self-interest. I mean look at Mitch McConnell. Did you know he was a HUGE Civil Rights Advocate? Did you know he was pro-abortion, and pro-union at one point? Just sayin' that the guy got a lot of influence, and look how he's used it.
Super-Tangent time: I'd honestly say that the right/conservatives are the source of most gender discussion. I don't even want to know how many times fucking Elliot Page has ended up on my feed the past few weeks, but you know what? NONE of that has been from Elliot Page. It's from fucking weirdos who think it's their duty to be upset that Elliot Page decided to become... Elliot Page. Most social problems in life can boil down to: "People need to mind their fuckin' business." My best friend chose not to circumcise their son. You know what he deals with always? People asking about his baby's fucking genitals. Constantly. I mean, "What Is a Woman" popped up this past week or so, and that's by a Right-Wing Blogger (who has said he would would murder every ape on the planet to save one human, but had no response when asked if he'd suck off a single dude to save all of humanity. Lol.) This feel that all we care about anymore is gender politics is intentional. On that point...
Conservative Bloggers/think-tanks have quite the loud voice, and this is political strategy. You know one thing that Conservatives/Republicans are way, way fucking better than Democrats at? It's not economic policy, freedom, or patriotism. It's strategizing. They know their target audience very well. They also have completely written off anyone that doesn't fall within that target audience. Democrats do not know their target audience well. Republicans use proven tactics to motivate crowds to move to the polls. They use legal (although it's abysmal that it is) strategy to pick their own voters. They knit-pick points that Democrats appear to care about, and paint a nice illusion that that is the only point they care about (trans issues, for instance).
In a time when there was a call for a disruption to the Status Quo the Republicans nominated Donald Trump. The Democrats met that nomination with... the most luke-warm candidate since Bob Dole (who was a Republican). Hillary Clinton. Republicans stacked the court to ensure that any bullshit they write into law stays that way for the foreseeable future. While Democrats are trying to precision focus on everything wrong with Trump (which, there's a lot), he's simultaneously focusing on the single, largest weak-point with Hillary. This shit is happening now. Biden can't have a tumble at age 82 without it being blasted on conservative media for weeks (I bike daily and I fucking fell off my bike a few months back, and I'm 35).
Full disclosure: I am center-but-left-leaning, and cannot stand Trump, or the current state of the USA. I feel the news inches closer and closer to a dystopian nightmare where The Onion is not parody, daily. I'm seriously tired of it. I'm tired of the moral and intellectual high ground that Democrats take when discussing politics. I get it. We're "smart." We go to college, they go to trade school. Why the fuck are we getting our asses kicked, though? Why are the supposed "idiots" losing zero followers/traction, and if anything, gaining supporters? Why does it feel like Democrats rule the country, but control zero percent of it? Why did Obama not pressure RBG to retire (don't give me your bullshit. Your fucking virtue signaling is why we're in the situation we're in. Again: Democrats might be more educated, but they fucking suck at strategizing). If Alito had been 85, do you honestly think Trump (or the Republican party behind Trump) would have let him go into another presidential term? Fuck no they wouldn't. Those seats are for life and a Justice in their 80s is basically a lame duck. Democrats in the USA need to learn what motivates people to vote. It's not gender identity. It's (usually) whether they can afford their rent / mortgage. It's usually when their amount due to the IRS sky-rockets while various CEO's pay next to nothing.
I don't want to disregard anyone's gender concerns/anatomical rights, but I just want you to know that making them everyone's concern is why you are losing them and every subsequent battle you care about. If your opponent is pointing out $4.80 gas, and you're pointing out how messed up it is that your 11 year old son can't take hormones, then you are part of the problem and what I'd call an emotional idealist. Focus on problems people care about, and regain control of the situation. Democrats saddle up onto way too many ideologies, and a side effect is that next-to-nothing gets done. Obama had the House, and Senate.. yet we still see tax loop-holes for the rich, and substantially higher rates for the middle class. Openly discussing things like Gender Identity, sexual autonomy, and all that is good and great but.. most people do not vote based on ideologies. Specifically I only notice younger voters doing this, and they make up a piss-poor percentage of voters in the USA.
TL;DR - I'm not Republican. I think that party is whack AF right now. However, they are also much smarter than Democrats in one regard: political strategy. We're all fucked if we keep making mountains out of mole-hills and ignoring the literal Mount Everest right in front of us.
Welp, if it's which sides brings this up the most I would say it's probably about comparable. It's mostly reactionary mumbo jumbo. One side does something, the other reacts, then the other reacts ad infinitum. in terms of politics I definitely believe democrats focus on this stuff over doing economic policy. Because democratic politicians won't benefit from changes to the system and it's easier to scream gender stuff at people.
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I think we have different perspective on what old school left might be. At least I am not 100% of which one you refer to. To me old school left sounds like soviets or cuba or venezuela. Which I would argue are abject failures. If you clarify what you refer to here I might get your points a bit better.Well, the reasons for this we would need to get into detail...
In society and in regards to gender or sexuality, there are two driving factors: One from equality and one from individualism.
The left, like the actual left, the one you now call old school or whatever, often only looks at it from the perspective of individualism, as a product of capitalism and that's were this innate scepticism of the new "left" (actually bored teenagers on Twitter, but whatever) comes from, which then in turn leads to some of these old school leftists to adapt right wing rethorics, the result is self destruction.
However, for the past century, actually equality has been the driving factor for all sex or gender related movements: Same wages, same rights, even same responsibilities.
To further it down how strong equality can be as a driving force when compared to individualism, a comparison between the legalization of homosexuality in the West and East Germany is worth looking at:
In the GDR, Homosexuality was legalized in 1957, the same year a West German court still called homosexuals mentally deranged and against any morals.
Subsequently, the GDR also legalized homosexual relationships between teenagers in 1987, which then upon reunification led to the bizarre situation that for four years or something, gay teenagers from West Germany had to travel to the former GDR to make love.
All this happened despite the GDR, as a dictatorship, suppressing any form of emanzipation, and despite the fact that all forms of flamboyance were viewed as bourgeois and as such looked down upon. The only driving factor were antifascist and marxist driven narratives of equality.
However, this was the past century. With the conflict of two systems, sociology was the thriving school of science. Sociology analyzes the inequality in our society, as such it is the favorite science of the left and the home of their über-father Karl Marx.
But now, or rather since 1990 it's "Capitalism unleashed" and...
"Everyone is his own fortune's blacksmith" is a German saying and the credo of capitalism and...
Psychology. Oriented in individualism it believes in innate self healing powers... Sounds familiar?
As part of healthcare, it is monetarized and as such has a strong lobby. We always see them in movies and television shows and are constantly told to raise awareness for mental illness. Movie plots now revolve around the characters inside world rather than social issues.
As such, we constanly look deep inside ourselves. We have to work on ourselves to achieve more. Harder. Better. Faster. STRONGER.
We are responsible for our own happiness, that's what we are told all the time.
It's a science that only exists to maintain and empower capitalism.
And of course capitalism hates the left it hates socialism, it hates sociology. As such a capitalist society will automatically develop mechanism to destroy it.
Controversy sells, so what better than algorithms that push crazed psychopathologized whackos on the one side and of course already ready by itself psychopathologized reactionaries on the other side.
Like anyone that has a problem with the current developments around gender will eventually be suggested Jordan Peterson or similar, who will then push through their Nazi propaganda that is called psychology.
And that's the original intention of this. It's a wrecking ball through the left. All of these websites are owned by Elon and his friends, these are capitalists, destroying the left is deeply ingrained within their Habitus, by that I mean I don't want to throw in a conspiracy theory here, they are just reproducing the system that benefits them because that's how things work by default.
Tldr: The left has to get back to sociology as it's driving science rather Tha psychology as that only reproduces capitalism and doesn't change anything for the better for anyone.
As for the bold part... not really? I am not sure of where you are going with that. Or how you got to the sociology-psychology stuff. My impression so far is that psychology, as valid a science as it is, is soft enough that anyone can pretend their ideology fits into whichever psychological study and thus their ideology is backed up by science, is "objective". Which is what peterson does, he tries to pass his entirely subjective unremarkable opinions and political commentary as if they were science. Which is a shame because when he actually talks about behavioral psychology without polluting it with political mumbo jumbo he can be pretty interesting.
I feel like we also have different perspectives on what capitalism and socialism is.

