Life Single or Married and why

[Kusachu]

Re: Single or Married

Well, I'm technically "single" since I'm not married, but I've been with the same person for 10 years. We just never got married, and I really don't even see the necessity of such a thing after so many years of monogamously living together. We don't have any kids yet so there hasn't really been a need to get married. It gets really fucking old when people ask us about it too. I like to say, "When we get tired of living in sin!"

I sort of have a grudge against marriages. They have absolutely nothing to do with love and everything to do with money it seems.

*shrug*

 

[Mugiwara_no_Jack]

Re: Single or Married

Yeah true.
A marriage changes all.

 

[Black Lagoon]

Re: Single or Married

but 10 years it's like you get married, and you think it would last longer??

 

[Kusachu]

Re: Single or Married

but 10 years it's like you get married, and you think it would last longer??

Nope. It will either last until death or not either way. Though, we may marry for insurance purposes, and damn if that aint a shitty reason to get married! lol

I knew a guy who got married at 18, and I asked him why the hell he would do such a dumb thing, and he was all, "Well, we can always just get a divorce."

What kind of shit is that? All these homophobic people are putting up all this religious fuss about the sanctity of marriage and then what, like one in three marriages end in divorce? Where's the sanctity in THAT? Eff all that nonsense I say.

 

[Black Lagoon]

Re: Single or Married

and I knew one who got married at 14 and his wife was 9 years old! it sounds crazy but it's true, and if i'm not wrong they still married now for 50 years.

marriage become like a shitty step in life of most people, I hear that phrase a lot ("Well, we can always just get a divorce")...

 

[Kusachu]

Re: Single or Married

and I knew one who got married at 14 and his wife was 9 years old! it sounds crazy but it's true, and if i'm not wrong they still married now for 50 years.

marriage become like a shitty step in life of most people, I hear that phrase a lot ("Well, we can always just get a divorce")...

Arranged marriage?? I hope so. That's so, so wrong if it's not. If they aint old enough to bleed they certainly aint old enough to breed!!

 

[Grizz]

Re: Single or Married

If my parents ever arranged a marriage for me without me knowing how the woman looks like or never seen her. i would curse them.. thats a bad thing to do..

 

[Essence]

Re: Single or Married

Well i'm not particular excited for marriage, i want to date as much as I can and not be tie down by marriage and commitment to one girl. Besides marriage Really dont improve relationship in fact it can be boring at times. BUt anyway eventually whenever i reach an age like 40, i will settle down with a girl wether we marry or not. But for now i'm not even 18 yet so I got a long time on my hand before i ever reach 40, so i intend to be a flirt and player right now and not take my relationship that serious

 

[sandrias]

Re: Single or Married

yes it right you dont need to merry someone but in my religion you cant life with the person together without a marriage

 

[Kusachu]

Re: Single or Married

yes it right you dont need to merry someone but in my religion you cant life with the person together without a marriage

That's true of many religions, but has grown pretty lax over the years as many people are becoming lenient with religious beliefs, especially in the U.S., where many often claim a certain faith, but do not practice. Even my parents' generation used to turn their noses up at people who had sex out of wedlock, but it's so commonplace nowadays that marriage as an institution is something that is practically becoming outdated.

My boyfriend's mother was very clear that she thought he and I should live together for a while before we got married. That was when we were teenagers. But she is also a woman who was divorced from his father and had raised him on her own. So from her perspective, for us to be sure we were compatible was a wiser option than hastily getting married (and possibly having kids) and then finding out we didn't like each other that much.

 

[HellooXD]

Re: Single or Married

I am still going to school, i single i have more freedom

 

[Rei ~♥]

Re: Single or Married

I'm single. Done in College.
Better to have a stable career first before getting married.

 

[Metal D. Reaper]

Re: Single or Married

still on high school and single but hoping not for too long lol

 

[Moogle Mango]

Re: Single or Married

Single for now. It's slightly easier traveling being single.

 

[igotthegoods]

Re: Single or Married

I just want to remind everybody here that the topic of the thread is not whether or not you are single or married. It is about whether you prefer to be single or married. Please don't simply declare your marital status. Tell us why it's great or why it's... not so great.



[nami] Just to add on, those posts above with just 'single' has been removed. [/nami]

 

[Yuki_Judai]

Re: Single or Married

I'm still single because i'm still in high school ^^

 

[~Brianma~]

I am still single......


Dunno why.....maybe I am kinda shabby or mellow?..And any tips for me to be more successful with girls?

 

[pirateninjahunter]

I have a gf.

I am still single......


Dunno why.....maybe I am kinda shabby or mellow?..And any tips for me to be more successful with girls?

Try have many girls as friends. Then, tell them that you would like their help finding a gf.

 

[Bugzee]

Re: Single or Married

I'm single. Done in College.
Better to have a stable career first before getting married.

Co-sign!!!

Tip: its much better being single when entering Uni then being in a relationship!!! TEMPTATIONS!!!!!!!!!

 

[Anyarel]

I'm just 19, I wouldn't like to be married now.
But I'd like to have a boyfriend, I never had a boyfriend for more than 3 months. =(