Archived The Hang Out Thread

[Tanuki-dono]

Agreed. Most of the time, kids really aren't mature enough for the consequences, even if they enjoy the pleasure. Hormones can be hard to control. Plus, young girls are at a much higher risk for having complications during birth - more birth defects and such. (It's the same for ladies having babies really late.) And bigger still is the huge risk of STDs. Back in high school, I "accidentally" (really - it was an accident!) stumbled upon the records of known HIV/AIDS cases in my class. :O It was more than I expected. No telling how many Gonorrhea, Herpes etc cases there are. (No offense to those who have such dieases, but it's still something to think about.)

 

[karasu]

Plus, young girls are at a much higher risk for having complications during birth - more birth defects and such.

yep, my ex-gf had a miscarriage once.. coz her backbone wasn't strong enough to carry the weight or something..
no the baby's not mine.. happened long before i met her..

 

[Gold Knight]

Agreed. Most of the time, kids really aren't mature enough for the consequences, even if they enjoy the pleasure. Hormones can be hard to control. Plus, young girls are at a much higher risk for having complications during birth - more birth defects and such. (It's the same for ladies having babies really late.) And bigger still is the huge risk of STDs. Back in high school, I "accidentally" (really - it was an accident!) stumbled upon the records of known HIV/AIDS cases in my class. :O It was more than I expected. No telling how many Gonorrhea, Herpes etc cases there are. (No offense to those who have such dieases, but it's still something to think about.)

Yeah... it can cause so many problems, but it's not only physically but ALSO with your family, everybody you know... essentially, your name immediately gets a lot of dirt on it.

Back in my high school, which was a VERY well-respected school... I don't think anybody in my town realizes just how many kids there actually do "it." I was kinda privy to a lot of secrets because people felt, I guess, more comfortable to telling them to a deaf guy (even though technically I could STILL tell others! But whatever, I kept my mouth/hands shut all the same.)

Anyway, there was this girl whose parents actually broke up due to feeling guilty about not "raising" her right. There was a boy whose dad disowned him. There was a boy on my football team who actually had a baby daughter since he was around 11 or 12 (the mother's family wasn't able to take care of her.) A girl I had a crush on at one point actually had a sex-transmitted problem for a while, it was very hush-hush - I think she only told me about it. And one of the quarterbacks on my team was trying to hide that he got a girl impregnanted before he finally committed to her his senior year (His family was good about it, though). Still, sometimes it can get downright ugly. =/

It's just not worth it.

But at the same time, it's not the end of the world either. Sometimes I do think God has a reason for everything, and I don't think he ever throws more at us than what we can handle. We'll make mistakes, but there's always a way to make amends and have a good life anyway, if you know what to do.

But why risk it when you don't have to? The first 30 years of our life, we're young, we might as well enjoy it before we commit and have a family. Sex's apparently even better when we're older anyway. ^^

 

[The Boff]

Anyway, there was this girl whose parents actually broke up due to feeling guilty about not "raising" her right. There was a boy whose dad disowned him. There was a boy on my football team who actually had a baby daughter since he was around 11 or 12 (the mother's family wasn't able to take care of her.) A girl I had a crush on at one point actually had a sex-transmitted problem for a while, it was very hush-hush - I think she only told me about it. And one of the quarterbacks on my team was trying to hide that he got a girl impregnanted before he finally committed to her his senior year (His family was good about it, though). Still, sometimes it can get downright ugly. =/

its very easy to avoid all this.. use rubber, peoples! use rubber!

 

[karasu]

rubber still have that 1% probability right?

 

[The Boff]

yeah it does but thats still 99% safe.... sounds like a pretty good deal to me!

 

[rykarreolacr]

More than eight in ten Italians (82%) have had sex in the car

I'm part of the missing 18%

 

[karasu]

i've never been to an australian park before... i'll sneak in tonight

 

[flunko]

haha, we may never see you again karasu

 

[white silver]

Oohh, the Sex thread eh?

@Karasu: What an extremely sad pity. Miscarriage because of a "bad" backbone, that's something quite new to me.

@GK: You seem to know a whole lot of people who are into sex and after problems. So there was actually a 12 year old kid who became a FATHER? Hmmm... how old was the mom, the same age? That's pretty scary and it really is not so right!

Man, I don't know about you guys, but I believe sex after marriage. A lot of people don't believe in that and I think (this is just my opinion) that it's not so right. Since marriage is actually the commitment of your life. People who have children before marriage really don't have a bright future ahead of them (well, according to my experience, I've had friends who got impregnated in school). Well, anyways just have safe sex and use a condom if you have to!

 

[karasu]

Oohh, the Sex thread eh?

@Karasu: What an extremely sad pity. Miscarriage because of a "bad" backbone, that's something quite new to me.

uh..didn't really matter.. she did get pregnant for the second time and aborted it... real pity...
if the first one wasn't a miscarriage, the baby would still be aborted anyway... but maybe she'd be more careful and won't happen the second time..
it wasn't bad backbone i guess.. it's just that she's still too young, still going to school and do sports etc without knowing she's pregnant.. maybe that's the cause.. (she told me that her weak backbone was the problem coz some accidental injury when she was little.. no further question asked)

 

[abdulahi]

this really has turned to a sex thread hasnt it.

ok just to quickly add my view cos i wana.

as many of you said please use condoms. but i guess many people dont follow that lately, especially in england one of the worlds leading countries on teenage pregnancies, i think its second!?! and living in london the place where everything happen, i have come across many young females with children, from as little as 14. but she was lucky due an understanding family.

im a pro choice type person, but even i have limits, and i dont believe those under 16 have the maturity to even understand the fullness to sex, not just the pleasure side but the hole package.

a quick fact: there were over 180,000 legal abortions in England and Wales in 2003, a 3.2% rise from previews year. and its meant to have grown each year

more facts later

 

[karasu]

*grumbles* @ whoever started the consent age discussion...

oh it was me

i really do believe that abortion is the wrong step.. they put on excuses like 'their future' and so on.. but i believe it's just their weakness and stupidity

 

[Gold Knight]

If this has turned into the Sex thread, we need more ladies here. All the testosterone in here isn't really my cup of tea >.<

 

[karasu]

did we scare them with our perversion?

 

[Gold Knight]

Probably!

 

[Macan]

Hmmm...Maybe they just want to hear more of our opinions I guess.

I really do believe that abortion is the wrong step.. they put on excuses like 'their future' and so on.. but i believe it's just their weakness and stupidity

I agree.

a quick fact: there were over 180,000 legal abortions in England and Wales in 2003, a 3.2% rise from previews year. and its meant to have grown each year

My word, that's soooooo many. What's happen with UK these days?

 

[abdulahi]

did we scare them with our perversion?

scared who, im still here.
just addind my view on abortions. i do believe its wrong but not always, in those cases where giving birth will effect the health of female, in my opinion its acceptable.

topic is slightly depressing no? feel for a new topic or is it just me

 

[Gold Knight]

Nobody can really say abortions are wrong or not. It all depends on survival, and if you're willing to live with the consequences. If the birth of a baby leads to nothing but death for that baby, and also puts the mother's life at risk in the process, then there's not really much room for discussion, is there?

Still, definitely best abortions are done way early on instead of at the last minute. I don't believe the baby becomes self-aware the moment it's been conceived.

Anyway, it's the mother's choice. She shouldn't be condemned for any decision she makes, since you never know what's going on with her whole life.

 

[karasu]

scared who, im still here.

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