Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 3

[Hardy]

Why don't they get married in a Stadium?

 

[Naomi]

I made an A in pchem lab, adv inorganic, and polymer. But I think that I'm the most proud of my C in quantum p-chem lecture. SOLVING ALL OF THOSE GOD DAMN SCHRODINGER EQUATIONS PAID OFF YALL

 

[earthforge]

I made an A in pchem lab, adv inorganic, and polymer. But I think that I'm the most proud of my C in quantum p-chem lecture. SOLVING ALL OF THOSE GOD DAMN SCHRODINGER EQUATIONS PAID OFF YALL

Congrats Naomi!

Ah science. Solving Schrodinger - we're told how to do it analytically. Then you find out the researchers just use programs to solve 'em.

 

[TheMoa]

I confess that last Thursday I was at uni drinking in a fire party with some friends... then a couple of girls started to hit on me and I was really on to it. I took one of the girls by the hand and I was ready to bring her to a quieter so we cold hook up. But my gf sent me a txt on this exactly moment, so I gave up and went home. I hate cheating and I have never cheated on my life, but my relationship is on really shitty state right now and it isn’t my fault (I don’t see her since may 5, cuz she’s not feeling like it).. yet I’m feeling really guilt about all this shit

 

[jorped]

I confess that last Thursday I was at uni drinking in a fire party with some friends... then a couple of girls started to hit on me and I was really on to it. I took one of the girls by the hand and I was ready to bring her to a quieter so we cold hook up. But my gf sent me a txt on this exactly moment, so I gave up and went home. I hate cheating and I have never cheated on my life, but my relationship is on really shitty state right now and it isn’t my fault (I don’t see her since may 5, cuz she’s not feeling like it).. yet I’m feeling really guilt about all this shit

Moa you are a fucking chick's magnet lol.
I think it was good that on that exact moment she sent you a text, you would had ended regretting it.

I understand how you feel, and even if nothing happened if i was in your situation i would still feel bad about even thinking about it, but i honestly don't think you should be to hard on yourself. I have seen some posts of you talking about your relationship and i honestly think it's been hard on you and you wouldn't to be blamed to question your relationship.

I think you have to decide what's best for you honestly. If you really like her, i would give you the advice to not give up on your relationship and be there for her, give her your support cuz maybe that will do a lot of difference to her, even if it's by distance.

If things don't get better after a while, if i was in your situation i think the wisest decision would be to end it. If she keeps acting distant, if she keeps not meeting you just because "she doesn't feel like it", you don't really have to deal with all that because even if her intention is not to hurt you, i guess you will prolly end feeling toyed in all this and it's something that will constantly making you feel bad.

Anyway sorry if the advice is uncalled for, but anyway ... hope things start going better for you Moa

 

[xi0]

I confess that last Thursday I was at uni drinking in a fire party with some friends... then a couple of girls started to hit on me and I was really on to it. I took one of the girls by the hand and I was ready to bring her to a quieter so we cold hook up. But my gf sent me a txt on this exactly moment, so I gave up and went home. I hate cheating and I have never cheated on my life, but my relationship is on really shitty state right now and it isn’t my fault (I don’t see her since may 5, cuz she’s not feeling like it).. yet I’m feeling really guilt about all this shit

Dude, just break up with her...

 

[Hardy]

Or just cheat on her

Spoiler

ok no

 

[xi0]

I wasn't suggesting it so he could be a manwhore, there's more backstory to his situation.

It's simple, if someone can't give you what you want/need from a relationship, then there's not much point to staying "together" and being miserable. Especially if you're putting yourself in a situation where you're tempted to cheat.

 

[kkck]

I am of the school of thought that if you haven't seen a girl in over 23 days then she is not your girlfriend. I am not saying she wasn't at some point but not seeing you "cuz she didn't feel like it" in over 20 days is downright weird. I have seen relations begin and end in less time than that... Maybe she is hoping you will kinda forget about her and save herself a breakup? Then again, I don't know your circumstances so ignore me if there is something that in some form justifies this (although I can't imagine what could do that).

 

[scav]

I confess that last Thursday I was at uni drinking in a fire party with some friends... then a couple of girls started to hit on me and I was really on to it. I took one of the girls by the hand and I was ready to bring her to a quieter so we cold hook up. But my gf sent me a txt on this exactly moment, so I gave up and went home. I hate cheating and I have never cheated on my life, but my relationship is on really shitty state right now and it isn’t my fault (I don’t see her since may 5, cuz she’s not feeling like it).. yet I’m feeling really guilt about all this shit

unless it's serious with current girlfriend and you think she gonna become the woman of your life i don't think you should hesitate, specially if your relationship is on a shitty state. it just gonna end one day and you gonna regret all the sacrifice you made. next time, bang her

 

[Hardy]

Yeah, do what scav says, teach her a lesson

 

[jorped]

I am of the school of thought that if you haven't seen a girl in over 23 days then she is not your girlfriend. I am not saying she wasn't at some point but not seeing you "cuz she didn't feel like it" in over 20 days is downright weird. I have seen relations begin and end in less time than that... Maybe she is hoping you will kinda forget about her and save herself a breakup? Then again, I don't know your circumstances so ignore me if there is something that in some form justifies this (although I can't imagine what could do that).

I confessed that i was bothered by the fact that you said 23 days instead of 22 days. I dunno why, but i always thought you are American and it's not 28th on US yet, so no excuse for that mistake!

Me and my brother have always been better than pretty much everyone when it comes at doing Math operations on my head. Some people can't do some simple operation (at least easily) without using a calculator!

Not saying it's your case kkck!

 

[Hardy]

Wow, your brother does math operations on your head? Damn, that twin connection.

 

[jorped]

Wow, your brother does math operations on your head? Damn, that twin connection.

Yeah, twin power!

 

[kkck]

I confessed that i was bothered by the fact that you said 23 days instead of 22 days. I dunno why, but i always thought you are American and it's not 28th on US yet, so no excuse for that mistake!

Me and my brother have always been better than pretty much everyone when it comes at doing Math operations on my head. Some people can't do some simple operation (at least easily) without using a calculator!

Not saying it's your case kkck!

I am not at the US but I am not in a different time zone either. Mistake was due to using my other watch today which is off by a half day and hadn't notice.

 

[M3J]

I confess that last Thursday I was at uni drinking in a fire party with some friends... then a couple of girls started to hit on me and I was really on to it. I took one of the girls by the hand and I was ready to bring her to a quieter so we cold hook up. But my gf sent me a txt on this exactly moment, so I gave up and went home. I hate cheating and I have never cheated on my life, but my relationship is on really shitty state right now and it isn’t my fault (I don’t see her since may 5, cuz she’s not feeling like it).. yet I’m feeling really guilt about all this shit

Break up with her.

 

[TheMoa]

there's more backgorund to the "Don't feel like it", she's dealing with some shit, although I'm not sure what it is cuz she has been keeping me away.
I don't cheat cuz I'm against it, I'm actually monogamous by nature, I think that if you want to hook up with another people you are free to do so, just break up and don't move one.
But that's the messed up part, I don't want to hook up with another people, I want to hook up with my GF, but we've been so apart that I almost did. Breaking up isn't so simple cuz I actually like her a lot... I want to work things out, not blow it up.
When it's good, it's really good.. we have tons of chemistry, we think very alike about the world, neither of us are jealous, we have tons of fun and talk about the future, shit like that. But when it's bad... is just, confusing. We never had a fight, she just drift apart confused and I'm left hanging,
It's about weighting in the good and the bad and seeing if it's all worthy. On the low it feels like it isn't, but on the high it feels like it's worthy everything. Classic case of someone infatuated that can't think straight.

And scav, I dunno if she's the woman of my life man, it's impossible to know it now, I'm only 23, we've been dating fo only 3 months. I think that you only figure who is the "partner of your life" when you partner already have been being the partner of you life, I think it takes time. But I'm serious with her..
When I was 15 and was in love, I was sure my GF of the time was the woman of my life, of course I was wrong and I'm grateful for that hahaha

 

[Adorien]

Good luck, Moa!

I confess I miss my friends.

 

[M3J]

there's more backgorund to the "Don't feel like it", she's dealing with some shit, although I'm not sure what it is cuz she has been keeping me away.
I don't cheat cuz I'm against it, I'm actually monogamous by nature, I think that if you want to hook up with another people you are free to do so, just break up and don't move one.
But that's the messed up part, I don't want to hook up with another people, I want to hook up with my GF, but we've been so apart that I almost did. Breaking up isn't so simple cuz I actually like her a lot... I want to work things out, not blow it up.
When it's good, it's really good.. we have tons of chemistry, we think very alike about the world, neither of us are jealous, we have tons of fun and talk about the future, shit like that. But when it's bad... is just, confusing. We never had a fight, she just drift apart confused and I'm left hanging,
It's about weighting in the good and the bad and seeing if it's all worthy. On the low it feels like it isn't, but on the high it feels like it's worthy everything. Classic case of someone infatuated that can't think straight.

And scav, I dunno if she's the woman of my life man, it's impossible to know it now, I'm only 23, we've been dating fo only 3 months. I think that you only figure who is the "partner of your life" when you partner already have been being the partner of you life, I think it takes time. But I'm serious with her..
When I was 15 and was in love, I was sure my GF of the time was the woman of my life, of course I was wrong and I'm grateful for that hahaha

Talk with her, then. If she does not seem committed or want to be committed, break up with her.

 

[kkck]

Well, we don't know your circumstances but her dealing with shit in such a way that she does not see you in over 3 weeks is rather unusual to put it very mildly. Usually your purpose as boyfriend would be more along the lines of helping her through shit by at least being there... 3 weeks IMO is more than enough for the breakup to be implied IMO.