See, that's why I play (or rather, used to) Horde! I don't get random kids asking me to do shit for them (apart from the occasional noob that mistakes
my beautiful lock for a mage, and asks me for a port). I've had to banish tons of monsters for my bro's to get their wep skill up though. No biggie since they run instances with me a lot. It's great when you don't have to get into LFG and sift through the noobs because your guildies/ RL are pro
While I was on my lock I'd normally grind with my RL friends: Prot warrior, Resto shammie, mage (doesn't matter what spec, the bastard out DPS' BM hunters and fire-destro locks for kicks), and an s-priest. We never went OOM with the totems+ mana battery