Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 3

[Adorien]

OMG I just realized that people could see me naked xDDD OMG no...

I just closed my window and saw myself closing the window... in a reflection from the neghbors' window... and I realized I undressed myself a couple of times when the lights were turned on... I wasn't standing in front of the window but still... For shame.

 

[xi0]

OMG I just realized that people could see me naked xDDD OMG no...

I just closed my window and saw myself closing the window... in a reflection from the neghbors' window... and I realized I undressed myself a couple of times when the lights were turned on... I wasn't standing in front of the window but still... For shame.

 

[Adorien]

Yeah ok, maybe if you answered back, I would think about it.

 

[xi0]

Yeah ok, maybe if you answered back, I would think about it.

Answered back what?

 

[Adorien]

Answered back what?

Check your Skype, yo. I think it's buggy again.

 

[scav]

rofl something like that happened to me when i was little. i could see everything one of our neighbor was doing the night from my window through the holes of my louver when she had the light turned on and her window opened. My window was close to my desktop and i was always sitting on it the night, so sometimes i had quite the spectacle xD. I was like 11~12 at that time so it was a big deal for me.

 

[Adorien]

So that's how it all started, huh...

 

[Hardy]

sometimes i had quite the spectacle xD. I was like 11~12 at that time so it was a big deal for me.

She made you discover masturbation?

 

[M3J]

creep game is strong

 

[TheMoa]

Well, we don't know your circumstances but her dealing with shit in such a way that she does not see you in over 3 weeks is rather unusual to put it very mildly. Usually your purpose as boyfriend would be more along the lines of helping her through shit by at least being there... 3 weeks IMO is more than enough for the breakup to be implied IMO.

yes, it isn't normal, I know that and sometimes I feel like I don’t have a girlfriend… But I still do, in the middle of this weeks have been some communication to keep it a relationship, but it’s not enough communication to keep it a healthy one. I think that more important then how many times we see each other, is how we talk with each other, how we share how things are going and all. People can have distant relationships (although it isn’t the case) that work out where they don’t see each other very often. Anyway, I’ve been pushing to talk and we probably we’ll talk today.
Yesterday there was this funny girl on the uni and we talked and laughed all day long, there was that kind of tension, but this time at least I didn’t though about hooking up with her… at least not for now (if I do break up is good to have someone around to have some fun)

 

[Hardy]

I think I suffer from perfectionism and OCD.

 

[Darjaille]

I think I'm like, seriously, and really, addicted to sugar. I've been keeping myself in check for months with an occasional binge but went COMPLETELY crazy last four days. I'm afraid I'll make myself sick. And I feel bad because I actually wanna become a nutritionist/dietitian. Gotta cure myself first I think.

Gonna try cutting all sugar for a week. It's the worst though cos even if I didn't have anything in the house I will just buy chocolate/ice/pastries in school or on my way from school. And I know I shouldn't and why I shouldn't and I still can't make myself stop.

T_T

 

[Pat]

Well, you already know too much sugar is detrimental to health but you simply can't help it. Nevertheless the only person who can stop you from eating more sugar is yourself. Just promise yourself that you won't eat sugar for a week and stick to it. If you don't trust yourself, you can post here that you make that promise. You can come a week later and give an update on whether you've fulfilled your promise or not. The bad feeling of knowing you'll be breaking your promise may perhaps motivate you to control yourself. It is all on you.

 

[kkck]

Would cutting it be the best choice? Rather than outright cutting it I would think that you should simply reduce the amount you eat meal by meal. If its an addiction then the issue is managing the urges, outright cutting sugar won't really help you with that. Avoid eating in between meals and try to replace your sugar sources. Rather than sweets aim for complex carbohydrates and stuff (veggies, grains...).

 

[Dried Ambrosia]

I seriously need cheelax time. I've been working a lot
(Up to 11 hours a day, plus 2 commuting) lately and I surely feel physically and mentally exhausted.

 

[benelori]

I think I'm like, seriously, and really, addicted to sugar. I've been keeping myself in check for months with an occasional binge but went COMPLETELY crazy last four days. I'm afraid I'll make myself sick. And I feel bad because I actually wanna become a nutritionist/dietitian. Gotta cure myself first I think.

Gonna try cutting all sugar for a week. It's the worst though cos even if I didn't have anything in the house I will just buy chocolate/ice/pastries in school or on my way from school. And I know I shouldn't and why I shouldn't and I still can't make myself stop.

T_T

Be strong D-girl ...if anything, you should at least exercise to work off the energy and all that other extra sweets give ...do you have the opportunity to exercise in nippon land?

 

[Darjaille]

Well, you already know too much sugar is detrimental to health but you simply can't help it. Nevertheless the only person who can stop you from eating more sugar is yourself. Just promise yourself that you won't eat sugar for a week and stick to it. If you don't trust yourself, you can post here that you make that promise. You can come a week later and give an update on whether you've fulfilled your promise or not. The bad feeling of knowing you'll be breaking your promise may perhaps motivate you to control yourself. It is all on you.

I know and I'm going to do my best. I can update here x) It's just not something what I can be sure about how it turns out. I've been able to hold off sweets for weeks, eat just small amounts for months... but it somehow always catches up with me. Obviously it's a problem which has various causes/outcomes and not so easy to break but I'll try cutting all other different "unhealthy" things which I might have been keeping up thinking they were good. Exchange stress, pre-leaving depression, fear of "exchange weight", being unsatisfied with myself... So, cutting the diet which might have been too low (calorie counting difficult when I'm not in control of my food) and hopefully my insulin levels will stabilize.

Would cutting it be the best choice? Rather than outright cutting it I would think that you should simply reduce the amount you eat meal by meal. If its an addiction then the issue is managing the urges, outright cutting sugar won't really help you with that. Avoid eating in between meals and try to replace your sugar sources. Rather than sweets aim for complex carbohydrates and stuff (veggies, grains...).

From what I've read, it's the best to completely cut it for about a week and then try to go to "small amounts" and "self-control" phase. The problem isn't that I snack on something sweet. The problem is that when I do it turns into 10x more.

Be strong D-girl ...if anything, you should at least exercise to work off the energy and all that other extra sweets give ...do you have the opportunity to exercise in nippon land?

....D-girl.........

I do, when I'm not too tired/lazy to go to gym after school. It's not that close so that doesn't happen too often. And weather is too "don't do it" to jog around the block, and I've been wanting to download some fun workouts like zumba or something good for mind like yoga, but I have limited wifi so I have to go to a starbucks first. I've decided to stop obsessing about weight until I return home though as I may or may not have put myself into starvation mode so I'm upping how much I eat ready to accept a few kilos until I stabilize.

Afraid of slipping into ED territory. I have motivation now but who knows how long it lasts.

 

[benelori]

Or just do some regular stuff that doesn't require living the house nor internet...a few situps, squats and lots of stretching

 

[M3J]

Substitute sugar with something healthy.

 

[kdowns]

Bottoms Up?