Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 3

[xi0]

Or he could be content with who he is and move on with his life. Just because she doesn't think he can maintain a relationship with her doesn't mean he can't with someone else.

 

[Notice me Escanor senpai]

Or he could be content with who he is and move on with his life. Just because she doesn't think he can maintain a relationship with her doesn't mean he can't with someone else.

If really he is introverted that is. It could be that compared to her he might be.
Well introverted people do start with a handicap, no matter how you look at it.

 

[M3J]

Or he could be content with who he is and move on with his life. Just because she doesn't think he can maintain a relationship with her doesn't mean he can't with someone else.

Or if he wants to improve on it, he should.

 

[xi0]

Or if he wants to improve on it, he should.

"improve" on it? People need to stop acting like there's something negative about being introverted...

 

[Notice me Escanor senpai]

"improve" on it? People need to stop acting like there's something negative about being introverted...

It kinda is bad, and this is coming from someone who sees herself as one.

 

[xi0]

It kinda is bad, and this is coming from someone who sees herself as one.

Maybe you're confusing introversion for being anti-social?

 

[Notice me Escanor senpai]

Maybe you're confusing introversion for being anti-social?

Introverted people do tend to not like activities where they interact with a lot of people. They prefer to do more calm activities that often don't require interaction.In this case, it may be difficult for an introverted person to interact easily with strangers, and they do tend to not like crowded and noisy places.
I'm more introverted than anti-social.

In regard to panther's case, maybe his girlfriend likes to party, or is just more extroverted overall, in which case their characters aren't compatible.

 

[xi0]

Introverted people do tend to not like activities where they interact with a lot of people. They prefer to do more calm activities that often don't require interaction.In this case, it may be difficult for an introverted person to interact easily with strangers, and they do tend to not like crowded and noisy places.
I'm more introverted than anti-social.

Sure, but I still don't see how that's clearly a negative thing. I think if more "extroverts" really though about their behavior, they'd discover they're actually introverted themselves. A lot of the things you mentioned aren't introversion itself, but things that come along with it

Well, I fail to see extrovert vs introvert as a clear black and white issue. Most people have aspects of both.

I just think there's this negative connotation with the word when there shouldn't be.

 

[Notice me Escanor senpai]

Sure, but I still don't see how that's clearly a negative thing. I think if more "extroverts" really though about their behavior, they'd discover they're actually introverted themselves. A lot of the things you mentioned aren't introversion itself, but things that come along with it

Well, I fail to see extrovert vs introvert as a clear black and white issue. Most people have aspects of both.

I just think there's this negative connotation with the word when there shouldn't be.

It's not , that's why I said "kinda". There are good and bad aspects in both, for examples artists and such are almost always introverts, they analyze stuff more etc. But they also have a hard time with trusting people, and just being around people they don't know. Doesn't mean they avoid all interaction, introverts are more comfortable around close friends, so they do socialize...but not on the same level as extroverts, who are all around more capable of socializing in all situations.They're more easy going etc, but they can't handle being lonely that well. SO each has it strengths and weaknesses, but overall extraversion is viewed better by society.Maybe because there are more extroverts out there, or because in the work environment etc they are more likely to get along with everyone...something that can't be said about introverts.
Well sometimes it's not that clear cut, some people are actually ambiverts.
From my experience I'd say that I like spending time alone, reading or drawing, something that an introvert is more likely to do. But sometimes I can't help but envy extroverts a little since they're so energetic and they get along with everyone. But just a little

I'm not sure if it's possible to work on one's introversion. It would require forcing yourself to go out and meet new people, and do activities that you don't normally do, but sometimes it is necessary .

 

[z.5]

I just broke off with someone important to me. She said I was to introverted to properly maintain a relationship. Maybe she's right

And maybe she is wrong.
Maybe she is so extroverted that she can not properly maintain a relationship with a single person.

Or he could be content with who he is and move on with his life. Just because she doesn't think he can maintain a relationship with her doesn't mean he can't with someone else.

Aye, don’t make her inadequacies your own.

Introverted people do tend to not like activities where they interact with a lot of people. They prefer to do more calm activities that often don't require interaction.

Are you saying that a romantic private reading date in a library wouldn’t ‘do it’ for you Lola?

 

[M3J]

"improve" on it? People need to stop acting like there's something negative about being introverted...

It depends on someone. I think my introvertedness is negative, and that I should stop being a shy [expletive]. But I associate the negativity with myself, while for others, it depends. If they view it as negative, they should improve on it. If they see it as positive or don't care, all the better for them.

Ultimately, what you're comfortable with and makes you happy.

 

[Notice me Escanor senpai]

And maybe she is wrong.
Maybe she is so extroverted that she can not properly maintain a relationship with a single person.


Aye, don’t make her inadequacies your own.


Are you saying that a romantic private reading date in a library wouldn’t ‘do it’ for you Lola?

maybe.

You really know what I like

 

[Holt]

I don't think there's anything wrong with being an introvert or extrovert. Negativity shouldn't be associated with either on a general term. I feel it's only valid based on the individual in question and not some form of general perception of one being good/bad. Doing something on someone else's basis or assessment doesn't pay. After all, it's not like someone else is living your life. That said, one would usually see one/two things that they feel is better in a different style. I think humans are just like that so we don't ever get too comfortable and feel we're perfect in our minds.

 

[kkck]

Too introverted or extroverted to maintain a relationship isn't a thing. Both are by all intents and purposes valid personality types under which people can function as normal human beings. If she was too extroverted and you were too introverted then perhaps you simply didn't have that much in common go begin with. Or maybe one of you has actual issues which you need to deal with (for example, being introverted has nothing to do with being shy).

 

[Hardy]

Maybe she just wanted to break up and came up with a shitty excuse.

 

[z.5]

Maybe she just wanted to break up and came up with a shitty excuse.

By Jove I think he's got it!

 

[Asclepius]

I confess that i am


FUCKING HAPPY FOR THE USA today!!!

Any american has the right to marry a same sex partner in his own country.

 

[Notice me Escanor senpai]

I confess that i am


FUCKING HAPPY FOR THE USA today!!!

Any american has the right to marry a same sex partner in his own country.

I don't believe in marriage as an institution, but that's the right thing to do

 

[M3J]

dumb that it took this long

 

[Charlie]

*Rant: There are too many threads to search through to find the one I was looking for. In my frustration (gurrr) I give up. I admit defeat - - I'll just post here *

A confessional request!

So - a buddy of mines father has become very ill suddenly.
If there are any of those people that believe in prayer and G-d here. I humbly request please say a prayer for Matts dad.
Even though you guys don't know him personally. They say prayer helps / heals.


Thanks, Charlie

---------- Post added July 19, 2015 at 08:26 AM ---------- Previous post was July 13, 2015 at 10:12 PM ----------

Update here

So - unfortunately things went for the worst and my buddy Matts dad passed away last-night.