Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 3

Copy Panda · Mar 14, 2016

So family bong sessions inc?

M3J · Mar 15, 2016

xi0 said:
I didn't catch her in the act, I figured it out on my own . My dad sort of clued me in on the past, but I figured it was just something that occurred once or twice some time ago. But then I realized every time I remember detecting incense (the smell of it usually bothers me), it must have been going on. Then it became about how she got it, what she used to partake in it, why she did it, did she have any left, etc.....

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I mean aside from the fact that it was going on, I was mostly bothered by why it was being kept secret. When I was talking to her about it she seemed ashamed for some reason. And by her reaction it felt like she thought I was scolding her or something...like I had become the parent or. Actually both of my parents were sort of like that as well. Me and my brother used to always call bullshit on my Dad because he would continuously denied he never partook of the stuff despite growing up in the 60s and 70s. My mom never actually denied it herself.

not shocked :disappoint

Naomi · Mar 15, 2016

xi0 said:
stfu What would happen if you found the same thing about your Mom and she was hiding it from you?

I knew she had become obsessed with weed not too long ago. Especially the whole medicinal side of it. As well as the recent efforts to decriminalize it in certain parts of the country. She's always been a hippy like that. I wasn't sure if it was out of trying to relive her teen years or what. I got high with my uncle and my father some xmas' ago, and my dad freaked the fuck out because of it. Not really my thing. My uncle came up from Richmond this weekend and they spent some time together today and I hadn't been smelling incense for quite some time, so I guess she probably replenished her stock.

It's just the fact that she would hide it and lie about it that is weird...and maybe not at least offering...idk

My mom's brother dealt her weed when she was in high school. I found this out from her boyfriend a couple of months back. Thought it was hilarious. She turned so red. :derp

If I found out she was smoking weed and her brother was dealing to her now? Wouldn't mind. Would think it was twice as hilarious.

And you shouldn't be too upset with her for hiding it from you. Everyone needs their privacy. Maybe she thought it was weird to tell you since it's illegal there? Not sure on that one. But I dunno. It's probably just a privacy thing with her. Probably along the same lines as wanting to keep your browser history private, you know? Or having a password on your phone.

She's way cooler than you still tho. :cookiefinger

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P.S. would you smoke weed with your mom?

xi0 · Mar 16, 2016

Naomi said:
My mom's brother dealt her weed when she was in high school. I found this out from her boyfriend a couple of months back. Thought it was hilarious. She turned so red.

If I found out she was smoking weed and her brother was dealing to her now? Wouldn't mind. Would think it was twice as hilarious.

It's actually my Dad's kid brother who's the stoner in this situation, but it's funny something similar was going on with your mom lol.

It's not like I minded that, it just gives me more ammo. :kappa

Naomi said:
And you shouldn't be too upset with her for hiding it from you. Everyone needs their privacy. Maybe she thought it was weird to tell you since it's illegal there? Not sure on that one. But I dunno. It's probably just a privacy thing with her. Probably along the same lines as wanting to keep your browser history private, you know? Or having a password on your phone.

She's way cooler than you still tho.

Apparently it isn't my uncle though, as she took back a lot of what she said in front of my Dad. So I guess me and my brother aren't allowed to know. It's not about the privacy thing for me, I fully understand needing privacy. It's more about why she feels there's a need for secrecy there. She started listing who might be her dealer and even my Dad got annoyed at her for basically trolling me so I just gave up. I guess I'm too much of a kiddie to know such things. <_>

Yeah, really "cool"... :cookiefinger

Naomi said:
P.S. would you smoke weed with your mom?

It's weird, because I've done it with my Dad and his brother one Xmas and it was a pretty eventful experience.

At this point, no. For one, it hasn't been offered and I don't see why it would be now. My mom doesn't even drink, but she definitely isn't a stick in the mud or anything. I guess I'm being a bit butthurt and see it as being a bit hypocritical on her part. She gets neurotic over my dad when he drinks too much and gets pissed off when he tries to hide it. It would make more sense if she was keeping it a secret from him...if that makes sense in some way? Idk...whatever.

M3J · Mar 16, 2016

Ammo for?

Naomi · Apr 16, 2016

I think I might have a slightttt alcohol problem. I hateeeee hate hate getting black-out drunk, but I do it more often that I care to admit.

The other night I went out with my sister and some friends and sometimes my behavior is just really weird to hear about the next day. There are nine bars on the strip we were going down, so I had nine shots (apparently) and three beers or something? Not to mention I had a flask in my jacket that was almost empty the next day, and I don't remember sharing. :fail

Just weird shit. We went to a 24 hour breakfast joint and I ordered " The Meat Dish " and when everyone looked at me strangely, I just slurred "what? fucking bitches judging me. It has THREE different kinds of meat. This is wonderful."

I am a vegetarian, I think I should point out.

Anyway, I kind of just disappear from the table for a solid thirty minutes (was apparently outside for a while, no one know where I went exactly, including me), and finally stumble back inside. I sit back down and look at the food that has arrived and just say "is this some kind of joke? What the fuckkkk. I didn't order this shit. You guys aren't funny." And shove the food at the other people at my table and tell them they have to eat it. @~@

Why did I fucking order that? And then didn't remember ordering it like half an hour later?? Where did I go?

Ugh. And then I kept shoving my sister's boyfriend out of rooms and saying "I just... Don't even like you. Git the fock out, mannnn."

I don't have a problem with my sister's boyfriend. I think he's chill ass cool guy.

I think I need to quit drinking... probably. But I have this feeling I definitely won't.

Oh and I threw up four times on the sidewalk. And was still a wee bit drunk the next day when I had to go to work. Fucking lovely. So disappointed in myself. :fail

OH. And I hit on my friend's girlfriend A LOT. AGAIN. She now think I want to fuck her. Just like his last girlfriend.

EMBARASSINGGGGG.

I don't know why these people are friends with me sometimes. Honestly.

M3J · Apr 16, 2016

You're a fun/amusing drunk?

Naomi · Apr 18, 2016

The words "belligerent", "handful", and "obnoxious" come to mind.

M3J · Apr 18, 2016

I don't mean that in a "what a good fun/amusing drunk!" more like, "what a fun/amusing asshole drunk!"

Naomi · Apr 18, 2016

M3J said:
I don't mean that in a "what a good fun/amusing drunk!" more like, "what a fun/amusing asshole drunk!"

That's closer to home.

M3J · Apr 18, 2016

Probably why they're still friends with you. Though if we talk about overall, I'm sure it's mainly because you're a good, fun person when you're sober.