Re: Manga Mommies' Corner
Whoa, missed alot here ^^''
Read it all though, and welcome Daddy
refii said:
Hey guys... I'm not a parent, I'm an uncle though; to my sisters two sons.
I have a question to ask to the parents here however.
I wanted to ask if, I don't really know how to ask, but have you noticed if your kids forget people they don't see too often?
My one nephew is one and a half, the other is three and a half. Last year I visited them every break I got from school, at least 6 times in the year. This year though.. my sister is trying to have another baby, and my brother in law is having a lot of stress with his new job and it was best that I not visit them. So I haven't really seen my nephews in at least 5 months.
When he was younger, the old one would talk to me on the phone, now he doesn't so much even though my sister says he smiles when I talk to him sometimes. When I visit, if they don't necessarily remember me, they get used to me within the hour, but I just wanted to know if you've noticed that children forget people at this age?
I'm asking because I may not see them for a while next year, I'll be going to the army and the older one will be starting school so, in case I don't get a chance to visit again this year it'll be at least 2 years till I see them again. And afterwards I plan on going to law school and I don't really know how much time that'll take up.. anyway I guess it's kind of silly of me to be worried over it, but I dunno I would just like to hear from parents? And please be honest, don't try to make me feel better by saying they won't forget me; do kids forget people at some point of not seeing them?
Hm, such a considerate uncle

It's so cool!
To tell you the truth, from what I know, 1,5 year old kids do forget people (and everything else) after some time, and that's completely normal. It's the same as when you teach a little kid a foreign language, but after he/she doesn't have a contact with the language/anyone speaking in it, they will forget and have to learn right from the start. You'd have to ask someone who knows more about the memory stuff, I'm no expert.
So, I hope you don't take it to yourself, because that's just how it is. If the older one is 3,5 y/o, that should be the age when they do remember, at least a person they've had some contacts with. Showing them pictures, telling stories and such help kids remember, but that kinda depends on the parents.
Don't worry to much, if the younger forgets, that only means when you'll meet next time he'll be older and you'll get to know each other from the start. You'd have to do that anyway, 2 years change everything
Good luck to you, and I hope you'll stay such an awesome uncle
manu said:
Question for the manga parents. When do you think is a good age to introduce manga to your kids? Not that I'm going to have kids anytime soon but y'know how kids don't like to do the same thing as parents so if you introduce manga to early does it scare them away.
I know what you mean, though I don't think in a manga/anime case it'd be a problem.
Well, I don't really hide the manga from my kid, so she's been more or less introduced already, kind of naturally. It's hard to say whether she'll be a manga fan when she grows up, but for now she likes it, most kids do I think.
Hope you and your kids have a great year, dear parents. Keep rocking!
