Life The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 3

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I think it's quite toxic to carry that kind of feelings towards the past. Personally I try overcoming those by telling myself "but that experience made me learn this or that about myself, therefore it was worth it."
True.
 

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Here is a confession. I lied about being married. It's a strategy i use in online forums to keep certain weirdos off my ass. Today i finally had that burden lifted off my chest. In the 3 forums i joined i faced the same problem lmao:lmao
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Another confession, I planned to leaving this forum once FT ended and i was making problems on purpose to justify my departure like getting mad over none sense FT ships poll made by regular members.
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Another confession, when discord app happened, There was multi FT servers i got invited to, In short, These servers didn't last, I got banned in some and some just deleted their own servers. Later i got invited to another discord server and i thought the people in this very server are friends, Spoilers most of them weren't, I wanted to leave many times but some fake ass weirdo kept telling me it's selfish act to do because of certain people you don't like doesn't mean you have to punish us all. :lmao
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Another confession, I'm too stupid to care about others with good intentions. I regret every second i wasted talking to trash people and trusting them, I could have invested that time in doing better stuff.
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To conclude i'm not sad, I will learn from this experience and will shut down any fake ass weirdo right off the pat.
You do you! :glomp
 

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It's annoying women have to resolve to such measures as about lying about relationship status to get rid of creeps. When will men ever learn to take a hint and that ni means no.

Good luck recovering from shit expeperience. ❤
Oh man, the stories I've heard from women range from creepy to downright scary. Even at times claiming to be in relationship isn't enough, as guys will just say "cheat on him, he won't know!" I don't think we'll see much improvement for women until we start teaching boys consent and respecting women, what no means, and make sure they grow up to respect and listen to women.

They deserve so much better, and the best place for us to start is by holding each other accountable and calling each other out.
 

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But why saying the reason for not wanting or rather being unable to mingle with the guy is a moral commitment to someone else, rather than straight up confronting with the truth - which may be like not being visually their type? It sort of gives hope to wait till the lady is single again, because a only reason that was given has nothing to do with the fact they're being assholes or something.

Maybe I'm naive, I don't know.
 

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I personally avoid to hurt people feelings. Like when i see someone very attached to me and i'm not interested in more than friendship. I make limitations and boundaries gradually to keep the friendship going without developing..
 

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But why saying the reason for not wanting or rather being unable to mingle with the guy is a moral commitment to someone else, rather than straight up confronting with the truth - which may be like not being visually their type? It sort of gives hope to wait till the lady is single again, because a only reason that was given has nothing to do with the fact they're being assholes or something.

Maybe I'm naive, I don't know.
From what I've seen, guys are more likely to back off if they think the woman belongs to another man, which seems to be rooted in misogyny and all. Plus, men also cry about being friendzoned when women reject them, so yeah. And there are stories of how men often stalk and even attack women who aren't interested in them. It's actually scary as hell being a woman in real life, and probably even worse online.
 

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I wonder where that comes from, would be interesting to read up if there's studies about it. How macabre it would be if the mothers' unconditional love towards their sons gives false expectations of other women making it harder for them.
 

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Patriarchal society, that we're often raised to not take no for an answer or that being mean means we like the person, mothers' love usually not resulting in punishing boys for being bad, and etc. I mean, there were guys who kidnapped a woman in Japan and tortured her so badly, but once they got caught and thrown in jail, one of the boy's mother hated the victim and desecrated her grave or memory or something because she blamed her for the son being in jail... even though the son chose to kidnap and torture.

It's pretty messed up.
 
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